Self-mastery of the Tongue; James 3:3
James 3:2 NASB
“For we all stumble in many {ways.}…” James includes himself in the warning, he is no more prefect than the rest of us. All have
a sin nature, it is not taken away at salvation. This
is a very serious warning for anyone who aspires to be a teacher, for five
reasons:
1)
Teachers handle
the infallible Word of God. 2 Timothy
2)
As a teacher you
are responsible to communicate truth, eternal truth, the truth of Scripture,
not opinions. It is very important for teachers to make sure that they don’t
find something in the Scripture that just substantiates their own opinion. They
have to make sure that they are doing exegesis, which is deriving truth out of
Scripture, and not eisegesis which is reading
opinions into Scripture.
3)
There is always
the temptation for teachers to become subjective in times of testing, so that
when you as a teacher are going through times of testing in your own life it is
very easy for you to become subjective and to start looking at the Scripture
through the limitations of your own experiences. So it is important for anyone
who is handling the Word of God to have developed a certain stage of
objectivity so that they can rise above their own culture, rise above their own
background, rise above their own personal prejudices and biases and likes and
dislikes, so that they can have true objectivity when it comes to the Word of
God. This is true for any pastor.
4)
Teachers need to
learn their own cultural biases and limitations and not read those into the
text of Scripture. The classic example we have today is that we are living in
what one particular church historian has called the psychotherapeutic age. That
is how he defines the post-World War II era, i.e. the age of psychology, and we
are all imbued from one degree to another with psychological terminology. Just
think back and see if you have used any words like victimization, self-image,
or anything else like that in the last week. That is just one indication of how
you have picked up and been affected by this in our society.
5)
We need to
realise, as James states here, there is a greater judgment to those who teach
the Word.
The key phrase that we need
to focus on here related to the use of the tongue and sins of the tongue is
“self-mastery.” James is saying it is clear that as we advance to spiritual
maturity the key evidence is that we master what we say. We no longer succumb
as easily to foot and mouth disease. We master what we say and we keep our
mouths shut. This is the second part of verse 2: “If anyone does not stumble in
what he says, he is a perfect man, able to bridle the whole body as well.”
James is not advocating silence, he is advocating self-mastery. James is saying
that if you are mature, if you can control your mouth, then you will be able to
master all other areas of testing and temptation in the life. He gives two
different illustrations of this in verses 3 and 4.
James 3:3 NASB
“Now if we put the bits into the horses’ mouths so that they will obey us, we
direct their entire body as well. [4] Look at the ships also, though they are
so great and are driven by strong winds, are still
directed by a very small rudder wherever the inclination of the pilot desires.”
In both of these illustrations what James is saying is that the tongue, though
it is small like the bit in a horse’s mouth or a rudder on a ship it has impact
far beyond its size. Thus every believer needs to master the tongue. Once you
say something you can never take it back.
Proverbs has a lot to say
about sins of the tongue. Proverbs
Proverbs 13:3 NASB
“The one who guards his mouth preserves his life; The
one who opens wide his lips comes to ruin.”
Proverbs
James 3:5 NASB
“So also the tongue is a small part of the body, and {yet} it boasts of great
things. See how great a
forest is set aflame by such a small fire!”
Psalm 101:5 NASB
“Whoever secretly slanders his neighbor, him I will
destroy; No one who has a haughty look and an arrogant heart will I endure.”
That ties the sin of gossip and slander to arrogance and pride.
Proverbs
Proverbs
James 3:6 NASB
“And the tongue is a fire, the {very} world of iniquity; the tongue is set among
our members as that which defiles the entire body, and sets on fire the course
of {our} life, and is set on fire by hell.” Here James uses a very interesting
phrase. He uses the word KOSMOS [kosmoj]
which refers to several things in the Scriptures. It can refer to the inhabited
world, e.g. John 3:16, “God so loved the world.” It can also refer to Satan’s
system of thinking. But it also has the meaning of order and adornment, the
idea underlying the English word “cosmetic” which is derived from this Greek
word KOSMOS. So the word here has the idea of adornment and organization that is
related to the genitive of description here, ADIKOS [a)dikoj], which
literally means wrongdoing. It is not a word for an unbeliever, it is a word
for wrongdoing and it is used in a verse that should be familiar to all of us,
1 John 1:9. It basically means wrongdoing or unrighteousness. 1 John 5:17 says
that all ADIKIOS [unrighteousness] is sin.” So this is just another
way that it is talking about sin, the sin that is generated and related to sins
of the tongue. The sins of the tongue are particularly devastating because they
affect the entire body, not just the physical body but the body of Christ, the
congregation. The James goes on to say, it “sets on fire the course of {our}
life, and is set on fire by hell.” The course of our life refers to every category
of our life, so that the sins of the tongue are dynamic in that they affect
every arena of life and it, in turn, is set on fire by Gehenna. Here the word translated
“hell” is not the word Hades, it is the word Gehenna. It comes from the Hebrew
word gehinnom,
and that refers to the
Then in verses 7 & 8 he
will go on to describe the difficulty of mastering the tongue.