A Tale of Two Christians
Gaius is the member of the
congregation who is positive and growing spiritually. In contrast there is
Diotrephes who is out of fellowship, operating on arrogance. He wants to be in
the limelight, wants to run things, and is indeed running things. He is
bullying the congregation and is the one who is calling the shots. Yet it is
Gaius who John must address this epistle because Diotrephes is negative to the
truth, negative to John’s authority. These stand for two different kinds of
Christians. Gaius is for the positive believer who is advancing towards
spiritual maturity, has a positive attitude towards the Word and is applying it
consistently in his life. On the other hand there is Diotrephes who is the
poster child of arrogance and the arrogance skills and the consequences of
arrogance on a local congregation.
Gaius has a positive attitude
to the truth and to the Lord Jesus Christ and so he is walking by means of
truth and is demonstrating the character of Christ in terms of his humility and
in terms of his priorities. His priority is on the teaching of the Word and
supporting the teaching of the Word. When certain missionaries and evangelists
came to the area it was Gaius who made sure that they were taken care of. In
contrast to him we have Diotrephes who won’t even receive these itinerant
ministers and those who wish to support them he puts out of the church.
Gaius’s application of
impersonal love is based upon his personal love for God and that is always the
way it is. Our impersonal love for others must be based on our personal love
for God, not the other way around. We cannot have real virtue in our love
because so often we are operating on our sin nature and carnality asserts
itself into the various things that we do. So we must put the motivation on
that which never changes, the immutable character of God. For our love to have
virtue it must be based on God alone has virtue, and the work of Christ on the
cross. The more we come to understand who God is and what Christ has done for
us the more we are motivated min terms of impersonal love for others because we
realise that no matter how unlovely they may be or how attractive they may be
we recognise we are all in the same boat and as far as God is concerned are all
equally obnoxious and offensive to God because of our sin. Yet, He dealt with
us not on the basis of who and what we are but on the basis of who He is and
what Christ did no the cross. That is the model for impersonal love. We treat
people on the basis of who God is and what Christ did on the cross. Once we
lose that motivation then we are operating on subjectivity.
Gaius’s impersonal love was
demonstrated was demonstrated by his support of missionaries and evangelism.
Our desire to witness is in many cases proportional to our impersonal love for
all mankind because we think of people in terms of their eternal destiny, not
in terms of how they treat us or how unattractive they are.
In contrast to Gaius’s
willingness, his selflessness, his grace orientation, his understanding of what
he can do as an ambassador for Christ in the local congregation, we have
Diotrephes. These are really just polar extremes. Whereas Gaius is just an
individual member of the church, somewhat anonymous because he is not out there
in the limelight but is there consistently and quietly in the background in
terms of his Christian service and hospitality, Diotrephes wants to be in the
limelight. He “loves to be first among them,” but he is antagonistic to the
authority of the apostle John.
Every now and then we run
into people who are antagonistic to the authority of a pastor. Biblically
speaking a pastor is the leader of a congregation, and that means he is the one
the Lord has put in charge. This is something that is inherent in the whole New
Testament idea of a teacher: someone who taught had authority because of their
position. It is an inherently authoritative position, the pastor the leader. Diotrephes
wants to be the leader and he has rejected the leadership of the apostle John.
He is operating on the arrogance skills: self-absorption, self-indulgence,
self-justification, self-deception and self-deification. He is setting himself
up as the man in the congregation. What
we have to remember here is that arrogance is the natural orientation of the
sin nature, so that at the instant we are out of fellowship we are operating on
arrogance. Arrogance is crafty, subtle, deceptive. One
thing that we don’t want people to think is that we are arrogant so we try to
cloak that arrogance in all kinds of pseudo humility and pseudo love. That is
really just another way of bringing attention to ourselves.
When we are operating on our
own sin natures the one thing we hate is for someone to keep us from pursuing
our own arrogant goal and direction, so as soon as somebody starts getting in
our way, somebody who is keeping us from doing what we want to do, then we are
going to react against them. This happens with Diotrephes in verse 10: “For
this reason, if I come, I will call attention to his deeds which he does,
unjustly accusing us with wicked words; and not satisfied with this, he himself
does not receive the brethren, either, and he forbids those who desire {to do
so} and puts {them} out of the church.” He reacts with sins of the tongue, malicious
words, slander, gossip; he starts running down John. Furthermore he was not
content with that, he would not receive the brethren. He starts to isolate
himself. This is typical of those who claim that they are the only source of
truth. In fact, those who wanted to support the missionaries were put out of
the church. He wasn’t going to put up with anyone who didn’t see things exactly
as he did.
John sets up his contrast
between two different people and they are both believers. Gaius is a spiritual
believer, advancing to spiritual maturity, and Diotrephes is a carnal believer
operating on arrogance and receding down the path of reversionism. So now John
is going to come to his conclusion in verse 11 which is a practical mandate to
the readers. NASB “Beloved, do not imitate what is evil, but what is
good…” Right there he is contrasting these two individuals: Gaius is called
good, and the word that he uses here in the Greek is agathos [a)gaqoj] which has the idea of intrinsic good. In this
context it is what we would called divine good, i.e.
operation that is done under the filling ministry of God the Holy Spirit. In contrast
we have evil. Evil here is indicating the operation of the sin nature, and the
sin nature is going to produce either human good or personal sins. Human good
might produce what appears to be wonderful, good, moral
people but it is all a cover up for the horrible arrogance that is
motivating their life. So we have the command here in v. 11 not to follow the
example that Diotrephes is providing but imitate that which is good, and this
is the illustration of Gaius.
John provides a prohibition, “do
not imitate,” in the form of a present middle imperative from the verb mimeomai [mimeomai]. This is the word from which we get our English “mimic.”
We also see part the root word mi
in the word “imitate.” These are etymological equivalents. What we have in this
construction is a present imperative, and a present imperative expresses
ongoing or continuous action. It emphasises something that should be a standard
operating procedure in the life of a believer; this is something that should be
an ongoing character trait. The believer is not to imitate that which is evil
but is to imitate that which is good. The sin nature gravitates to that which
is evil. It is easy for us to follow the example of someone who is involved in
arrogance, in carnality, especially if that person has an area of strength that
is similar to our own. If that person is in leadership it is even so much worse
because then we use their behaviour to justify our own actions even when we
know that it is not right. This is why it is so important for leaders in terms
of their character. This is why there are certain character qualifications for
pastors and deacons in 1 Timothy 3 and Titus 1,
because character does matter in a leader.
“…The one who does good is of God; the one who does evil has not seen God.” Here
the word “good” is a compound word from the Greek, agathos plus the verb poieo
[poiew]—agathopoieo
[a)gaqopoiew]. The
good here is divine good. This genitive phrase “of God” in the English but in
the Greek it is not simply theou [qeou], the genitival form of the noun, but it is preceded
by a preposition, ek [e)k], meaning |”from the source of God”—e)k tou qeou: “he who does
good is from the source of God.” Some would say that means this is a believer,
but that would be wrong. This is not talking about a believer verses an
unbeliever. E.g. 1 John 3:7, 8 is a similar passage which is not a contrast
between a believer and an unbeliever. The idea of doing good
is also expressed in a couple of other passages, e.g. Luke 6:32-36. This is
what we see manifest in the life of Gaius and in the life of the mature
believer as they are operating on grace orientation and personal love for God.
Another example is found in 1
Peter 2:15, 20 NASB “For such is the will of God that by doing right
you may silence the ignorance of foolish men….For what credit is there if, when
you sin and are harshly treated, you endure it with patience? But if when you
do what is right [intrinsic good] and suffer {for it} you patiently endure it,
this {finds} favor with God.” Doing good is the
operation of divine good.
The doctrine of the role model – indicated by the verb mimeomai.
3 John
3 John
Then he closes with a
typical closure. 3 John
As we conclude 3 John we
are reminded of the emphasis on truth. Truth was also a key idea in 2 John and
the 1st epistle. The believer is to walk in the light, walk in the
truth; he is not to walk in darkness. We do this through the use of those ten
problem-solving devices.