Characteristics of Love
What we learn in
the Scripture is that God is love, so however God acts that is how we define
love. You don’t define love in some abstract way and then say God fits that
standard. God is the standard, what God does is love. What Paul is doing in the
first seven verses of 1 Corinthians chapter thirteen is giving us a description
of love. But this is not an exhaustive definition of love,
it is a description of love that have been nuanced in
contrast to the behaviour of the Corinthians. He does say everything there is
to say or everything that could be said about love in these seven verses, he is
particularly structuring what he says in relationship to the carnal behaviour
of the Corinthians. So he begins in the first three verses by emphasizing the
priority of love and that no matter how much we know about Scripture or how
great the spiritual gifts are but he is saying that even of you have certain
gifts, certain knowledge, certain types of application, if it is not done
within the framework of love then it is useless and meaningless, it is nothing
more than pseudo-spirituality and pseudo-humility. The word “love” is used ten
times in this chapter and whenever a word is used again and again and again
then that is the subject the Holy Spirit is emphasizing.
Even though the
chapter is in the context of spiritual gifts and it is not an anacoluthon, it is not going down a rabbit trail into
a side topic. He is not diverting in a major way, he is emphasizing what must
be at the core of spiritual service. It is not done to serve oneself,
to put oneself forward, to emphasize one’s own position, but it is done from
the viewpoint of love, that which is best for other believers and the
congregation. So all gifts operate and start from a position of grace
orientation, and grace orientation means that you have genuine humility. Genuine
humility is foundational to being able to advance to spiritual maturity. Grace
orientation involves also giving or serving others, but the correlation to that
is that you are also able to be served and you are
also able to receive gifts. If you don’t know how to receive you don’t
understand grace.
As we get into chapter
13 this fits into the broader context that was introduced back in 8:1 where
Paul made the statement that knowledge [gnwsij], academic knowledge, information, makes
arrogant. But the Christian life is based on knowledge [e)pignwsij]. We have to know something to apply it, and we always know a lot
more about any field than we apply. We only apply a very small percentage of
our general field of knowledge, so it stands to reason that the more we know
the more we will apply. So we emphasize knowledge, but not for knowledge sake.
Knowledge is the means to an end which is spiritual growth, knowing how to think
biblically, how to think in terms of divine viewpoint for the application of
doctrine and spiritual growth. This chapter is going to focus on the Corinthians’
real underlying problem which is their arrogance and lack of love.
So we come to
verse one, and verses 1-3 all follow the same pattern. 1 Corinthians 13:1 NASB
“If I speak with the tongues of men and
of angels, but do not have love, I have become a noisy gong or a clanging
cymbal.” It begins with a third class condition in
the Greek—it is either true or it is not true; maybe yes, maybe no. It expresses
a hypothetical situation. It should be translated “Even if.” Paul is not saying
that you can speak with the languages of men and of angels,
he is simply using a hypothetical situation, an extreme situation in order to
make a point. He is not saying that you can, or even saying that there are
angelic languages. There is no biblical evidence that there is a distinct
angelic language. The verb “speak” is laleo
[lalew], present active subjunctive, and this indicates the hypothetical
or contingency of the 3rd class condition. The 3rd class
condition is always expressed with the particle e(an plus a subjunctive verb. This subjunctive
verb indicates potentiality but it doesn’t suggest that it is indeed real. Paul
is starting here with the pseudo priorities of the carnal Corinthian believers:
to speak in languages. The word translated “tongues” is glossa [glwssa] which means languages. He is saying that
even if he can do all of these things and have this tremendous manifestation of
what you think is the Spirit and spirituality but it is missing love… “if I have not love, I have become.” This is the perfect
active indicative of the verb ginomai
[ginomai]
which means to move from one state to another, and if it is in the perfect
tense it is indicating a present reality from a past completed action: “I would
already have become.” Paul is emphasizing here the priority of love. This isn’t
just everyday love, it is a love that is unique to the
spiritual life. For example, in Galatians
1 Corinthians 13:2 NASB
“If I have {the gift of} prophecy, and know all mysteries and all knowledge;
and if I have all faith, so as to remove mountains, but do not have love, I am
nothing.” The same 3rd class condition is used to begin the verse: “Even
if I have the gift of prophecy.” He is not saying that he does, he is simply
expressing an extreme; “and know all mysteries and all knowledge,” which he
didn’t, and that is clear from the fact that in verse 9 he will say: “For we
know in part and we prophesy in part.” That is, our current knowledge is
partial. So it is clear from the context that nobody has “all mysteries and all
knowledge,” he is simply using this in a hyperbolic sense to express the fact
that no matter how much you may have been graced out by God and been given
extreme spiritual gifts, if it is not done with love it is meaningless. The
word “mysteries” is the word musterion
[musthrion] which has to do with previously unrevealed
truth. He is speaking about temporary gifts here: prophecy, knowledge and
faith; “so as to move mountains,” and that doesn’t mean to be able to literally
move a mountain, it is simply an idiom to do something that one would think
would be impossible. Without love these have no benefit to the spiritual life,
it doesn’t provide any value for me or anyone else because it is nothing more than
arrogance and self-absorption.
1 Corinthians 13:3 NASB
“And if I give all my possessions to feed {the poor,} and if I surrender my
body to be burned, but do not have love, it profits me nothing.” Again, the
same construction: 3rd class condition used to express a hypothetical
condition, and Paul is using hyperbole here. The word “give” [some translations
‘bestow’] is psomizo [ywmizw] and it is a present active subjunctive, indicating
potentiality. It means to feed, to nourish, and it comes from a root noun which
means a morsel, and it is usually used with the accusative case to express
giving something in instalments, to dole something out. In this verse it is
used to describe selling off one’s possessions and property one thing at a time
in order to feed the poor and to take care of those who are less fortunate. Then
we have a textual problem with “and if I surrender my body to be burned.” It is
expressed by two words: kauxesomai
[kauxhsomai] and kauthesomai
[kauqhsmai]. The first word means “that I might boast: and the second
means “that I might be burned.” So there is some debate as to just exactly
which way the text reads here. The preference is to “be burned.” It is an
extreme position: “even if I am martyred” … but don’t have love, it doesn’t profit
me anything. He is emphasizing grace here because he uses the word paradidomi [paradidomi]. The prefix para
adds an intensity to the verb didomi [didomi],
so it has the idea of to give up, to hand over, or to deliver up “my body to be
burned.” Then he concludes, “it profits me nothing.”
This is a good economic term ophileo
[wfilew], present passive indicative, meaning “it is to me of
no value.” The subject receives nothing from all of these manifestations of
religiosity.
Beginning in verse four we
start a four-verse series where Paul provides various adjectives to describe
love. Remember, this is not an exhaustive conclusive list. He is primarily
using these characteristics in order to contrast the behaviour and the attitude
of these carnal Corinthians with what genuine love will look like that is
produced by the Holy Spirit.
1 Corinthians 13:4 NASB “Love
is patient, love is kind {and} is not jealous; love does not brag {and} is not
arrogant.” “Love is patient” is the Greek word makrothumeo
[makroqumew; makra = long; qumew = anger], and this has the idea of long on anger. In
other words, it is going to take a long time before this person becomes angry.
In actual usage the word emphasizes patience, steadfastness, the ability to
remain tranquil and calm while waiting. It means to endure provocation without
complaint. The idea here is to not seek revenge or retribution or to get back
at someone when you are wronged. It is not trying to justify one’s self—just the
opposite of Greek thought and modern thought, the idea that if we are wronged
we have the right to be vindicated. MAKROTHUMIA has the opposite idea, that
you are going to rest in the Supreme Court of heaven for your vindication and
your are not going to try to get it yourself. Love is going to put up with
provocation and not make an issue out of it. Second, “love is kind.” This is the
verb chresteuomai [xrhsteuomai] which has the idea of showing yourself to be mild or
relaxed. It is sometimes translated as being benevolent. The idea is to
emphasize the positive aspect of reaching out to help someone or to be useful
to someone else. Then we get into some negatives: “is not jealous,” the Greek
verb zeloo [zhlow] which means to be jealous or envious, and emphasizes
uncontrolled outbursts of envy or jealousy. Once again, envy or jealousy come out
of self-absorption; “does not brag” (NKJV parade itself), the verb perpereuomai [perpereuomai], and it has to do with someone who is conceited, who
is bragging on empty accomplishments and making an issue, again, of self. So
love is something that is not oriented to self and is contrasted with arrogance
and self-absorption. Then the last word is phusioo
[fusiow], the same word as used in 8:1 for “puffed up.”