Clough Proverbs Lesson 38
Avoid Pitfalls of Life! – Proverbs 6:1-5
Proverbs is a book
that deals with many of the details of life, and it organizes these details
within certain institutions. So we are
distinguishing here five divine institutions: the first one is responsibility,
or volition or free will; the second divine institution is marriage; the third
one is family; the fourth one is judicial authority or the right of the state
to take life; the fifth is tribal diversity or international relations, and
then finally there is a sixth, but it’s not really a divine institution, but
it’s the Church, and by taking all of these institutions and organizing under
them the various details of life we can understand where Proverbs applies.
Under the first
divine institution we would indicate things like responsibility; under the
first divine institution also would come labor, would come money, because
economics, contrary to modern propaganda, is not a prerogative of the federal
government, it is not a prerogative of any government. Economics is a prerogative of the producer
and economics is a study of the value of labor that man has created and
produced, therefore economics properly falls under the sphere of the first and
not the fourth divine institution. The
second divine institution in Scripture is marriage, sex, the doctrine of the
best woman and the best man.
The third divine
institution is we’re dealing things of the family, children, parents and notice
with parents authority. Authority is
learned in the home; authority is the thing that us the only real place it ever
first occurs is in the home and if authority is not met with in the home then
there is problems in the rest of life and in all the other spheres. People who have never learned the lesson of
authority in the home are very sorry people and make a lot of people miserable,
including themselves. Education also
falls under the third divine institution.
Please notice that many of these things that you and I have come to
think of as associated with the fourth divine institution, government, are not
so scripturally. From the scriptural
perspective education has to do with the family, not with the government.
The fourth divine
institution is in the blue in this chart because it falls after the fall. The two institutions that are post-fall occur
in blue to mark the fact that they came in after man sinned. So the fourth divine institution includes
things of justice, law and punishment.
And of course military and so on under that. So the fourth divine institution is something
that God has ordained. Capital
punishment, by the way, is the heart of the fourth divine institution. It is always scriptural and biblical to
support capital punishment; anybody who does not support capital punishment is
very confused on the biblical doctrine controlling the fourth divine
institution.
The fifth divine
institution has to do with history, diplomacy, questions of war and peace. And these two later institutions are
post-fall functions, that is, they are functions that are introduced
presupposing man’s sin. And then finally
the Church has come into history and it has to do with doctrine, with the
authority of the local church, with spiritual gifts, with questions of missions
and so on. Notice the Church is not the
same as the fourth institution, they are separate, as the doctrine of
separation of Church and State makes very clear.
So Proverbs deals
with details within these categories, and the category of chapter 5 is the
second divine institution, dealing with the problems of sex, marriage, the best
woman and the best man. And this is
advice that a father gave to his son.
This is sex education in the Bible and it is dealing with the son’s
needs, and to how he can satisfy these needs.
Proverbs 5:1-14 dealt with the negative side, why the young man is not
to become promiscuously involved with women who are not in the category of best
woman. They are not the one that God has
picked out to help him in his calling.
And therefore the positive side in verses 16 through the end of the
chapter deals with the command to seek his sexual fulfillment in the best
woman.
We had two
questions handed in last time about this and the teachings that we have devoted
to Proverbs 5. The first question: We
dealt with the norms and the standards of sex in the Bible and this question
was does masturbation enter the picture here and does the same principle
apply. In Scripture, in Genesis 38 it
has been traditionally used to say that this is wrong; actually the Scripture
does not give directives toward this question.
The directives it gives are indirect directives, namely that whenever
you engage in an activity that cultivates a mental attitude sin of adultery or
fornication, that is a sin, and the second thing is that whenever you have any
kind of sexual activity, whether it’s masturbation, bestiality, or anything
else that distorts the normal sexual response patter of man then you are
subtracting from the best woman or best man’s rights, according to Scripture. Remember the argument of Proverbs 5 is
something you’ll never encounter in school or anywhere else, it is the idea
that certain people, that you have a best man and a best woman, each has been
invested, God has invested, so to speak, funds on deposit with the best man or
the best woman, and whenever they engage in sexual activity outside of the
second divine institution they are spending someone else’s funds, and that is
the argument against promiscuity.
The second
question that was handed in deals with Proverbs 5:16: your explanation of
Proverbs 5:16 as the good overflow of sexual prosperity doesn’t seem to relate
to the New ASV translation of this verse which translates it as, (quote),
“Should your springs be dispersed abroad, should streams of waters in the streets,”
be spread around in the streets. This
would seem to better carry on the sense of verses 15 and 17 and that tells the
male to drink from his own well and save it all for himself and for his wife. How can the conflict be resolved? The answer to that is that in verse 16 we
have a difficult, difficult verse in the Hebrew. I did not have time last week to go through
and justify why I agreed with the King James but I will now give you the two
reasons why I prefer the King James translation of Proverbs 5:16-17 over the
new translations.
The first reason
has to do with the agricultural analogy.
Remember you have a well, you have the water, and what do you do with
the water. In verse 16 it says the
rivers of waters, and it’s peleg,
which is the Hebrew word for irrigation streams, and the irrigation ditches,
obviously carry water. They carry the
water that came from the well. Now to
continue that, “Let thy fountains be dispersed abroad,” would carry the water
of verse 16, but if you take verse 16 the way the new translations have it, as
a question, then the water of verse 16 cannot be the same water of verse
15. If you make verse 16 a questions,
“shall your fountain,” that would be saying shall the male’s initiating sexual
activity “be dispersed abroad,” and “shall his resources be spread
abroad.” Whereas the theme from verses
15-18 is not the male’s resources, it is the female’s resources. And so my first reason for sticking with the
King James translation, making verse 16 a declarative statement and not a
question is that it preserves the flow of the analogy.
The second reason
for preserving the King James translation is that if you make verse 16 a
question you make it a motivation clause and by the form of proverbial
literature you always have a command and then you have motivation, and
motivation clauses don’t seem to start until verse 20 and therefore since the
motivation clauses don’t start there it’s silly to bring on in by itself in
verse 16. So I hope I’ve justified my
reasons for taking it… I do have reasons whether I have time to bring them out
or not and those are the reasons, the preservation of the agricultural analogy,
and the form of this kind of literature.
Now today we begin
a new section in Proverbs 6. And this is
an exhortation to avoid the pitfalls of life; the entire 6th chapter
is negative. Please notice the emphasis
on negative teaching in Scripture.
Again, this is the father talking to his son, whether it’s Solomon or
David it becomes ambiguous here, I think it probably just goes back to Solomon
now teaching his son, but the entire 6th chapter deals with various
pitfalls that a young man can face in life.
Some will be repetitious; some of the discussion of these pitfalls
repeats what has been said in chapter 5 except the first five verses of chapter
6 deals with money and finance. So we go
from sex to money and if we didn’t get you one way we’ll get you the other
way.
So Proverbs 6:1-5
deal with problem of finance, and more important problems and pitfalls in
business relationships. And this was
part of the father’s education of his son, what he has done to avoid these
kinds of situations. Beginning in verse
1, “My son, if you be surety for thy friend [neighbor], if you have stricken
thy hand with a stranger, [2] You are snared with the words of thy mouth, you
have been taken with the words of thy mouth.
[3] Do this now, my son, and deliver thyself, when you are come into the
hand of your friend; go, humble yourself, make sure thy friend. [4] Give not sleep to thine eyes, nor slumber
to thine eyelids.” [5] Deliver thyself
like a roe from the hand of the hunter, and like a bird from the hand of the
fowler.” Now what is this talking
about?
Proverbs 5:1-2,
let’s go back to the form of instruction literature; instruction literature
always has at least two parts, sometimes three.
The two parts it always must have is command and motivation. But in this case we have a third element pop
in and that is circumstance. So verses
1-2 deal with the circumstances; in other words, the situation in which you
follow the command is described. So the
first two verses deal with the situation.
Verse 3, the first part of it, up to the word “yourself” comma, deals
with command; verse 4 deals with command, verse 5 deals with command. So we have Proverbs 6:3a, verse 4, verse 5,
they deal with command, that’s the instruction on what to do. And then the last part of verse 3, Proverbs
6:3b deals with the motivation. Here we
notice the motivation is a very small part of the total passage, whereas in
previous passages we’ve noticed motivation plays a tremendous role. So we have circumstances, commands and
motivation. Let’s look not at the first
two verses, the situation.
The whole passages
hinges on how you analyze verses 1-2. If
you’re not clear on the first two verses you can never be clear on what to do
because you can never be clear on what the situation is that you’re to do this
thing in. So let’s get very, very clear
in our minds what the situation is, not only in the time in which it was
written but what situations in our lives today correspond to verses 1-2. Let’s look at verses 1-2 then.
“My son, if you be
surety for thy friend [neighbor],” there’s this “if” clause, “if this happens
to you. Now the problem of being surety,
what does it means when it says “if you be surety for your friend?” To see this turn back to Genesis 43:9 and
we’ll show you an example of a man becoming surety, and then perhaps this
example will help you see different areas in your life where you can get
yourself in similar jams. Genesis 43:9,
the situation is this. The time is about
1890 BC, the family of Jacob has come into Palestine in full force, and there’s
famine at this time in history and so therefore they have to go to some place
where they can get food. But just before
the famine began God providentially worked out a fight between Joseph and his
brothers; Joseph was kind of mama’s boy and he was not well-liked by the rest
of his brothers. In fact, from what we
can tell of Scripture Joseph was a brat and his brothers couldn’t stand him and
so they finally decided we’re going to sell him out and they did, literally, in
a pit. And remember the Ishmaelites came
by and Joseph was sold on a caravan that took him down into Egypt. And he was sold there as a slave, but under
the sovereignty of God it just so “happened,” (quote, end quote), by sheer
chance of course, that he was sold to the man who was in Pharaoh’s household
and became a high person in Pharaoh’s household. By the time of chapter 43 Joseph is almost
coregent with Pharaoh. Joseph would
probably be classified in today’s term as Prime Minister. He was a tremendously strong man and if they
ever get the chronologies worked out for Egyptian history we’ll probably find
out that Joseph has been reported down through history under another name, and
this name is the name of a man that appears in Egyptian records and so on, it’s
not Joseph but Joseph does appear in Egyptian history, if the chronologies are
taken in a certain way.
So Joseph, then,
reigns with Pharaoh. At the time of the
famine the rest of his brothers come back down to Egypt; when they come down to
Egypt they do not understand that the man they talk to is none other than their
brother, Joseph. They don’t recognize
him. So Joseph is going to have some
fun. And so what he does is he says not
look, what I’ll do is I will keep your youngest son and you guys go back and
here’s Joseph and here’s Judah and the brothers. So we’ll put Joe here, Joe is an Egyptian
now. And Judah and the brothers are down
and they want food but he’s not going to give them food until they go back up
to their father Jacob and Joseph says now look, I am going to give you food if
and when you return your youngest brother and so they go back up to talk to
Jacob. Well, Jacob has already lost Joe,
he thinks, and so he’s not about to allow them to lose somebody else in the
family. And so understandably Jacob is
very hesitant about letting this younger boy go.
And so in Genesis
43:9 Judah, look at verse 8 first, “And Judah said unto Israel,” Israel is
another name for Jacob, “And Judah said unto Jacob, his father, Send the lad
with me, and we will arise and go, that we may live, and not die, both we, and
thou, and also our little ones. [9] I
will be surety for him, of my hand thou shalt require him: if I bring him not
unto thee, and set him before thee, then let me bear the blame forever.” So obviously one of the things of becoming
surety means that you become responsible for someone else or some
condition.
Now let’s look,
then, at the problem of surety. There
are always three parties to a surety agreement.
How we handle Proverbs 6 depends completely on getting these three
parties straight. In a surety situation
your first party is, in this case, Judah.
This is the man who becomes surety.
He is the surety because he presupposes or assumes responsibility for
something. The second party can actually
be a person or a thing, in this case it’s Benjamin, and we’ll say a party or a
thing because actually in this case it’s his safety, it’s the safety of
Benjamin, so in a way it is a thing. So
the second part of a surety agreement is not only the man who is the surety but
it is that for which he becomes surety, that is, that for which he accepts
responsibility. I will be responsible
for Benjamin’s safety. That’s the second
part of a surety agreement. Now the
third part of a surety agreement is the one to whom you are surety; in this
case it is Jacob, and that is the one to whom you are a surety; to whom. The second party is the one for whom you are surety.
Now you got the
three parts? Remember these because if
you don’t understand these things… let’s make sure we all understand these
three points because if we don’t there’s no way what you’re going to understand
what Proverbs 6 is talking about and you’ll misapply Proverbs 6. The first party is the surety; the second
party is the one for whom you become surety, and the third party is the one to
whom you become surety. Notice also in
verse 9 if you fault; if the second person or thing does not come to pass what
is going to happen to the first party?
The first party is held responsible to produce, and then it says, “if I
bring him not to you,” Jacob, “I,” being Judah, if I, Judah, bring him,
Benjamin, not unto you, Judah, “and set him,” Benjamin, “before you,” Judah,
“then let me,” Judah, “bear the blame forever.”
Notice the first part of verse 9, “Of my hand you shall require
him.” So becoming surety means you
become legally responsible for something.
You become legally responsible to someone. So there are two things; you become
responsible for something to somebody.
Now in Genesis
44:32 we have a construction that is necessary to master before we are prepared
for Proverbs 6. Now if you can remember
some simple English grammar it will help.
You go to some of the schools that apparently some of you go to you don’t
know any English grammar and if that’s the case let’s have a few English lessons. First, there is such a thing as a subject in
a sentence and a verb. The subject noun,
an adjective standing for a noun, and so on.
And we have a verb, and there are such things as objects of verbs. And objects of verbs can have two parts, a
direct object and an indirect object.
Now in the Hebrew objects are denoted in special ways; and indirect
objects are denoted in special ways. Now
Genesis 44:32 sets up the grammar to understand which party is obligated to
whom.
So in verse 32,
“Thy servant has become surety for the lad,” now where it says “surety for the lad” the Hebrew has direct
object. So the second party is linked to
the verb as a direct object in this case.
I become surety, and in the Hebrew it just rendered, now obviously here
it’s rendered as object of a preposition in the translation but that’s not so
in Hebrew; the Hebrew it’s direct, it literally reads: “I become surety
him.” And it means I become surety for
him, but you have the direct object. So
therefore, check when we come to Proverbs 6; is the direct object going to be
the second or the third party. It is
going to be the second party. Then in
verse 32, “For thy servant has become surety for the lad, to my father,” “to my
father” is rendered as indirect object, or literally an object of preposition,
“of,” so this is the third party.
Remember our parties; Jacob is the third party, the one to whom you are
a surety, indirect object. Benjamin is
the thing for whom you have become
surety, direct object. So now we have
the subject and the verb and then we have a direct and indirect object. Now that is the normative way of expressing
surety.
With that in mind
let’s turn to Proverbs 6 and see if we can sort our way through there because
most translations break down the Hebrew grammar at verse 1. “My son, if you be surety for thy friend,”
now the way the English reads in some translations it reads as though it is
saying, “My son, if you become surety to your friend,” it’s reading as though
the word “friend” is the second party here, “if you become surety for thy
friend,” it’s reading as though “friend” is the direct object, whereas in the
Hebrew the surety mentioned here is indirect object. So the friend and the stranger are not what
you become surety for, it is the one to whom you become surety; in other words,
it is the one to whom you become indebted.
And so “if you become surety to your friend, or if you have stricken thy
hand with a stranger,” it’s a parallel sentence, it means the same thing;
you’re obligated to the friend or stranger.
Now an analogy
might be if you co-sign a check for somebody.
Let’s break it down with the first, second and third party again to give
a modern analogy. You are the first in
this case, you are the one that co-signs the check or co-signs the note for
someone. The second part would be the
one for whom you signed the check, in other words, the other person. And the bank would be the third person; the
bank is the one to whom you have become obligated to make sure that that note
is paid if the other person defaults. So
if party two defaults, then you become responsible to whom? To the bank.
Therefore in Proverbs 6:1 the stranger, if you want to visualize this as
we go through just think of co-signing a note.
The friend and the stranger would be analogous to a bank today.
Now the friend and
the stranger are two nouns that mean the same thing. And the next problem we have with verse 1 is
we have to understand why it is that the word “friend” and “stranger” are used
in parallelism. These two words seem to
be antonyms, that means they tend to be opposite nouns that mean something
different but yet here they’re used in parallelism. Why?
The answer is that “friend” and “stranger” mean that the person can be a
fellow Jew, he can be a citizen of the nation but he is a stranger in the sense
that he is not of his immediate household; he is not of the immediate
family. And in the Old Testament, you
have to understand this in the time it was written, financial obligations were
kept within the family, and by family they didn’t just mean father and mother,
they meant grandson, aunt, uncle and everything else. There was a large unit. But the financial transactions were kept
within the family. So when you have this
in verse 1 you are talking about someone that goes outside and becomes
obligated to someone in another family unit or outside of the realm of circle
of friends. So here he has stepped
outside by a loan or by some other system and has obligated himself to this.
Now applied to the
Christian life the “friend” and the “stranger” become, if you’ll hold the place
and turn to 1 Corinthians 6, Paul repeats this same principle as Proverbs 6 in
1 Corinthians 6:13. In verse 12, at the
end of verse 12 Paul is talking about practices, in these practices he says,
“All tings are lawful unto me, but all things are not expedient; all things are
lawful for me, but I will not be brought under the power of any.” Now that is one beginning phrase that
introduces you to Paul’s concern about becoming under authority of something
else, it just turns out here it’s the sin nature. That is, he has an area of weakness in his
sin nature and although something may be good by normative standards, they are
wrong for him; he can’t engage in those activities without becoming in bondage
to his area of weakness of his sin nature.
And so therefore he says I do not want to lose my freedom; I do not want
to become compromised in may freedom that God has given me in Christ.
Now that is an
introduction to 1 Corinthians 6. Now
turn to 2 Corinthians 6:14 and you’ll see where this principle is extended
beyond the sin nature to people external from himself. The first principle is 1 Corinthians 6 where
we deal with the sin nature; the second principle is found in 2 Corinthians 6
where it’s talking about people. And it
says, “Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers; for what fellowship
hath righteousness with unrighteousness?
And what communion has light with darkness? [15] What concord has Christ with Satan? Or what
part had he that believes with an infidel?
[16] And what agreement has the temple of God with idols? For you are the temple of the living God….”
Now there’s the
doctrine of separation, and that by the way should control some of you single
people’s dating life. If you’re messing
around with people who are unbelievers you are out of it. And I have met more jerks when it comes to
premarital counseling and some little thing comes up, would you please counsel
me, we’re going to get married two months from now. And I say fine, what about your partner, is
he a believer? Well, I don’t know
whether he’s a believer or not. Well
don’t you think it’s about time you found out?
And I’ve had more than one person get very irritated at me because I
refuse to do premarital counseling till they find out. I’m not going to marry somebody that’s an
unbeliever and a believer; it’s ridiculous.
And this verse is my authority and justification for so conducting
myself, and I always intend to conduct myself this way. So if you want to go out and marry some
unbeliever you can get married somewhere else but you’re not going to get
married here and I’m not going to bother to counsel with you because you’ve had
my counsel; five minutes, done.
Now in 2
Corinthians there are other sins that have to do with the “yoking.” The yoking has to do with doing a job; the
picture is obviously two oxen yoked together to do a job. And obviously it applies to the second divine
institution, right? You have the best
man, hopefully, and the best woman yoked together to engage in the calling of
the man. Now that’s the way it works in
marriage. But it also works, and here’s
what Proverbs 6 it’s talking about, in the area of business or in the area of
the first divine institution.
Now here the
principle cannot obviously be applied to (?) because we live in Satan’s world
and obviously we’re going to have business arrangements with non-Christians and
worse than that, you’ll have business arrangements with Christians that are out
of fellowship. And if you haven’t been
burned by another believer, cheer up because you’ve got an experience
coming. And don’t moan and groan because
some other believer cheats you or something in business, just take it;
everybody has a sin nature, you do to, move on.
But I warn you that just because you happen to be involved in a business
agreement with a believer doesn’t mean a thing as far as being gypped; you can
get gypped by believers just as skillfully as you can get gypped by
unbelievers; in fact, probably more so because you’re not on your guard.
So business
arrangements have to be watched. And
Paul definitely says whenever you engage in any kind of a contract you read the
fine print very carefully because you never want to obligate yourself, or at
least obligate yourself to a minimum to the unbelieving world. Your primary obligation is to the Lord. Let me give you an illustration. Many churches or many Christian
organizations, when they get in a jam they put out frantic appeals for
funds. And when they do this they get
money, big people to contribute funds to them, regardless of whether those
people have personally accepted Christ of not, with the result that you get
Christian organizations and they become obligated to unbelievers, and this is
how some of the great seminaries in the United States have gone down, because
in the time of need they have gone to unbelievers in direct violation of 2 John
and 3 John. The New Testament is very
clear on this. And when unbelievers give
then unbelievers have a right to determine policy and when you let a Christian
organization under the control of unbelievers you have essentially made a pact
with Satan right at that point, no matter how orthodox your doctrine is, you
have essentially allied yourself and yoked yourself together with Satan. And that’s why Paul is very strong in his
language in verse 15, “What agreement,” concord, agreement, working together
“has Christ with Satan? Or what part has
he that believes with an infidel?” So
(?) primarily is applying to marriage but applied to the business world 2
Corinthians is saying this: keep your alliances to the minimum with regards to
the non-Christian. Don’t get over
obligated to these people.
Let’s turn back to
Proverbs 6 and see if we can recapture the mentality in that day. The “stranger” or the “friend,” then, is one
who would correspond to an unbeliever today; one who is a stranger to Bible
doctrine, one who is a stranger to Christian fellowship. And since he is a stranger he’s outside of the
household of faith and therefore this person, Proverbs 6:1 has become “surety
to him.” Now I notice the Living Bible
in Proverbs has it translated, “If you endorse a note for someone you hardly
know.” Wrong! It should be “If you endorse a note to someone,” such as some bank, “that
you hardly know.” The point isn’t the
debt for which you become obligated; the point is to whom do you become obligated.
The issue is not what, it’s to whom, that’s the issue.
Now Proverbs 6:2,
“You have become snared,” in other words, you’re a sucker, the word “become
baited” is used for bait of small animals and in the Old Testament small
animals were looked upon as the most stupid ones, and this is a sarcastic
reference in verse 2 to your stupidity, “son,” this is a father talking to his
son, you’ve just got taken, “you have become ensnared with the words of thy
mouth,” the “words of thy mouth” is a contract that has been signed, “you have
been taken with the words of your mouth,” notice “words of your mouth” is
repeated. This is very rare in Hebrew
poetry, to have a parallelism where the words are repeated verbatim and
wherever you have it repeated verbatim they are emphasized. So the emphasis of verse 2 is how did you get
it? You got it with the words of your
own mouth. In other words, he is saying
we are dealing with something that has to do with the first divine institution,
your personal responsibility and you got into it and now friend, you are going
to have to get out of it. And don’t come
running to me, notice what he starts out saying, there are seven imperatives
beginning in verse 3, and the father says, son, you got obligated to this by
your very own stupidity, now don’t come running to daddy and expect that daddy
is going to get rid of it. You got in
and brother, you get out, it’s your baby all the way.
So beginning with
the word “Do” in Proverbs 6:3 we have a series of seven imperatives. These seven imperatives define the course of
action that the son is to undertake immediately, whenever he realizes… you see,
in verse 2 it’s all past tense, it’s Hebrew perfect tenses, he’s done this,
he’s done this, he’s done this, he’s become ensnared, now all of a sudden it
dawns on you what you got yourself into.
And so beginning at verse 3 is a series of imperatives, not past
tense. Imperatives, future, what you
should do now that you realize the mess you’re in. “Do this now,” and here’s the word that means
urgency, there’s a tremendous urgency in all of these seven imperatives, “Do
this now, my son, and deliver yourself,” get yourself out of there, and
“deliver yourself” is reflexive which means no one else can do the delivering
except you; you got yourself into it, you get yourself out of it. Nobody else can do it, even dear old dad;
he’s not going to help you either, you are going to do it. So you “deliver yourself.”
Now begins the
motivation clause, notice the motivation clause, the rest of verse 3, here’s
why. In a nutshell this is the entire
Hebrew philosophy in controlling economics.
Now if we had time we could go back into some of the great passages on
business and money and banking in the book of Leviticus and the book of
Deuteronomy, but underlying all of those dozens in the Old Testament there is
this philosophy. The word “when” should
be because, it’s the Hebrew word kiy,
and kiy can mean when or it can mean
because but here we know it means “because” because of the context. “…because you have come into the hand of your
friend,” that’s the reason, and your “hand” here is kaph, you know when it says in the Old Testament the hand of
Jehovah is raised against the nation, that is an anthropomorphism for power;
God’s omnipotence spread abroad against the nation, God’s hand. So when it says “the hand of your friend” it
means the authority of your friend.
Again, who is the friend? The
friend is the stranger of verse 1, same context. And this is why you under go these seven
imperatives; you have come under the authority of this person.
Why is this so
critical? Let’s relate this to the
pitfalls of life. In Proverbs 6 the
father is telling his son how to stay free.
And this is why when he gets into the problem of the right woman and the
best woman down at the bottom of the passage when he deals with marriage it’s
how to stay free. The whole theme of
this is don’t hinder your freedom as a responsible being operating under the
first divine institution God has given you a calling in life, and that calling
may be a business man, it may be something else, it may be in the military, it
may be in industry, but God has given you a calling in life and every piece of
advice in Proverbs 6 is directed to keeping your freedom, and the freedom to
carry out your calling. In other words,
said another way, if the son does not put Proverbs 6 into practice in his daily
life he is liable to destroy his calling because he will destroy his freedom
that gives him the right to do that calling; he will become encumbered, he will
become ensnared, he will become hindered by all of these agreements and
everything else and finally he will realize that in the last analysis he has no
freedom to do what God wants him to do.
So the rule in the
Old Testament business philosophy is stay as free as you can… stay as free as
you can, because you live in Satan’s world; Satan does not want you to be free
if you’re a Christian. And if you’re
active in applying the Word of God what way would Satan use to hinder a man who
is in business who wants to do something for God? Obviously wrap him up in a business agreement
with somebody else that Satan can control.
It’s very simple, and what we have here is something that applies to our
own generation. This is how to stay free
in Satan’s world, and the people in the Old Testament are very, very acutely conscious
of how Satan can bring into bondage through economic deals and tie up believers
completely.
This is why during
the Tribulation one of the great tools of Satan is called Babylon. Babylon is political and economic cartel that
ties up the world’s money and during the Tribulation no one will be able to
pay, buy or sell without the mark of the beast.
There will be a credit card system and to get this particular credit
card you will have to declare your undivided allegiance to the beast; without
this credit card there will be no cash, there will be no money, nothing; you
will have only one credit card and if you don’t have this credit card that’s
it, you don’t buy food, you don’t buy anything, you don’t even have water. So during the Tribulation Satan accomplishes
his objective and that is to tie up the world’s money so that believers can’t
use it. And this has always been Satan’s
objective in the role of economics. This
is why today, as Satan gains more and more control we find more and more emphasis
against the individual. This is why we
have laws that says the United States citizen can no longer older own
gold. It’s destroying his economic
freedom. When you have the so-called
cash-less society, and so on, [tape turns].
… it is operating
to destroy your ability to use your money the way you want to use it and so
this anticipates Satan’s ultimate
means. This is why economics in
God’s Word, the key is to always keep your freedom, and this is why on an
individual basis why in verse 3 he says you have lost your freedom. And so notice the reaction, “you have come
into the hand of your friend,” you’ve destroyed your freedom, you have limited
what you can do in business because now your friend is going to tell you what
you can and cannot do because you’ve become obligated to a non-Christian,
you’ve become obligated to somebody that Satan can control and because of this,
now they are going to dictate what you will do and what will not do with your
money and with your job and with your business.
You have just tubed it as far as an operational freedom goes to carry
out God’s will in your life. You have
destroyed the freedom that God gave you.
All right, now a
series of emergency moves are made, and notice each one of these seven
imperatives tells you hurry up, do this, do this, and there’s a tremendous
emphasis on speed, get out of that agreement, break it, do anything you can,
and the most powerful verbs are used in the Hebrew language to connote urgency,
even if you have to grovel at the person’s feet, get out of that
agreement. And so it says, “Go, humble
yourself,” now the word “humble yourself” looks like this, raphas, and it is what they call the hithpael stem in Hebrew which
is reflexive. In other words, this is
not an active verb, it’s not a passive verb, it’s a verb that goes in a circle;
you do this to yourself is what it’s saying; you “humble yourself,” and
literally this verb means to stamp down, and it is the most humiliating type of
humbling that is possible in Scripture.
This is the extreme of the vocabulary available to the writer of
Proverbs. If you have to go to the
ultimate of humiliating yourself get out of that agreement, break it, convince
the other person, do something, whatever it takes get out of that
agreement. So “humble yourself,” not
“make sure thy friend, [importune thy neighbor],” this means pester him, it’s
the Hebrew word to cause confusion, go after him and hound him and hound him
and hound him and hound him until you get rid of that.
And then finally,
Proverbs 6:4, “Give not sleep to thine eyes, nor slumber to thine eyelids. [5] Deliver thyself as a roe from the hand of
the hunter, as a bird from the hand of the fowler.” Not this is very significant and those of you
who have been following Psalms will immediately recognize what’s happening
here. Do you know what the fowler
is? The fowler in Scripture is a picture
of Satan. Why? What does the fowler
do? He traps birds. Why are birds always pictured as
believers? Now that is a good title, the
birds, but the birds are used as pictures of believers because a bird is an
animal that is free and whenever you have the imagery of the bird and the
fowler or the snare and the fowler in Scripture it is always showing how Satan
hinders the freedom of a believer to live for God.
You see, use your
head here, Satan is the greatest genius of all time. He will get you either (?) into carnality,
you’ll get out of fellowship, that’s one way he can hinder your freedom. But if you are the kind of believer that has
a minimum of carnality, you have a maximum therefore of growth, you have
tremendous spiritual strength, if Satan can’t get to you through your own soul
he will get to you through your personal relationships. He will have you marry the wrong person; if
you’re a business man he’ll get you into some wrong deals.
That’s why I’ve
never been able to understand why men who are in business take such a flippant
attitude to the Word of God, well I understand why some of them do because some
of them have had a presentation of legalism and so on and they think the Word
of God is for somebody under three who is female and with that image of the
Word of God I can understand why some men act the way they do. But a man who is a Christian and is involved
in business has one of the most fantastic set of pressures upon him of any kind
of Christian today. The men who are the
most pressured by Satan today are Christian businessmen. College students have pressures academically;
college students have pressures intellectually, but college students have
nothing compared to the kind of pressures that a business man has. A businessman is under fantastic pressure and
he has got to continually watch his deals because Satan is continually there,
particularly the stronger the Christian the more aggressive Satan will be in
trying to hinder you, trying to set a trap to destroy your business and your
freedom to move. He will always be after
you there. So it behooves you, the
stronger you are as a believer actually the more direct satanic attacks you
attract.
So, Proverbs 6:5,
“Deliver thyself as a roe … and as a bird from the hand of the fowler.” Get out of the agreement.
Now as always we
come to a very interesting thing.
Throughout the book of Proverbs, every time we move into a passage like
this what are we learning? We’re
learning something about the real creation.
Today, in this passage we have dealt with something about the first
divine institution, labor and money and business. Now that’s fine, but do you realize that when
you learn something about the details of life and if you’re thinking
Scripturally, don’t stop there, go on because once you have mastered knowledge
of a detail of life, guess what? The
same God who has made the universe and the details of life has also made our
spiritual relationship with Him mirror these things, so when we pick up a truth
out of the details of life, you take that truth, focus it up here, and lo and
behold, it turns out you’re rewarded doubly.
Not only do you have an insight into business relationships but it turns
out that you’re going to have greater insight into the plan of salvation.
Now let’s see
how. We have reviewed the problem of
surety. Now do you realize that the
entire plan of salvation is in direct contrast to Proverbs 6:1-5 and here we’re
going to see one of the most amazing demonstrations of God’s grace? God is sovereign, God is righteous, God is
just, God is omniscient, omnipotent, omnipresent, immutable and eternality. One of His attributes is love. Now His attribute of love was focused upon
creation from the time of creation, but after the fall love becomes even
greater and turns into grace. Grace
could not exist before the fall. Grace
could not exist before the fall because grace, by definition, is love toward a
creature who does not merit it. There’s
not one person sitting here that merits God’s love; none of us merit God’s
love. It is grace all the way. The reason why Jesus Christ died on the cross
wasn’t because we earned it; Jesus Christ died on the cross because He loves
you. Jesus Christ died on the cross for
the worst people who have ever lived because He loves them. People that you can’t stand Jesus Christ
loves so much that He would go to the cross if even just they were
existing.
So you pick out a
person in your own relationship with friends and enemies that you can’t stand;
now just think of that one person that you can’t stand, it just grates you
every time you see them. Now, Jesus
Christ would have died for just that person, even if you weren’t around. Now that’s the love that Jesus Christ has
poured out. That’s grace. Love covers the unlovable and unmerited. Now how does this tie in with surety? Because the concept of Proverbs 6 is going to
be used in four places in the New Testament to show God’s grace.
Let’s turn to the
first one in Hebrews 7. Once we master a
detail of life it turns out that God the Holy Spirit can now turn this detail
of life over and use it to illuminate the plan of salvation. Now this is why you parents, who have
children who may not be believers, this kid may not be a believer, he may have
rejected everything you taught him about the Word of God, but if you have been
continually teaching him the details of life, how to master this situation,
that situation, you have developed some chokmah
in him, wisdom. And if he has wisdom
over the details of life he has the ability that can be used by the Holy Spirit
later to understand spiritual truth, and this is a beautiful illustration. We’ve understood something in the economic
and business realm and now in Hebrews 7:22, Jesus Christ is pictured as a
surety. Notice in verse 22, “By so much
was Jesus made a surety of a better contract.”
Now look at that, this is amazing.
Let’s go back to
our three parties that we started with; party one, party two, party three. Party one was the surety; in this case it is
Christ. Christ is the surety; Christ is
the surety about what? He is the surety
about the new covenant. He is taking the
responsibility to bring the new covenant to pass. Then who is Christ responsible to? This is the amazing thing. To us, that’s the amazing thing. To the Father, yes, but also to us. Now look at this; what has been the mentality
in the Old Testament over and over and over and over again. Don’t get obligated for people who are
outside the will of God. And what does
Jesus Christ get around to? (?)
obligated. Do you know why? Because He loves us; He, so to speak, risks
getting obligated for the salvation of people who are completely outside the
Father’s will, and Jesus Christ becomes surety that the new covenant will come
to pass. Jesus deliberately obligated
Himself to this cause, and the reason is because He loved us.
What does it mean
“obligate to bring the new covenant to pass”?
First of all, it means that He is obligated that many believers will
come to know Him during the church age.
The second thing is that He is obligated that these believers will
become sanctified. The third thing is
that He is obligated that the millennial kingdom will be established. Now that’s the obligation Jesus Christ has
undertook, and Jesus Christ, by Proverbs 6 didn’t have to do it. Nowhere in the Mosaic Law does it say become
surety to something. This was a free act
of grace where Jesus Christ loved the world and He undertook voluntarily to
become surety for this kind of thing.
We have another
passage, Ephesians 1, this involves the third personality of the Trinity, the
Holy Spirit. What does it say in
Ephesians 1:14, [13b] “you have been sealed with the Holy Spirit of promise,
[14] Who is the earnest” and the word “earnest” is the same word as surety, the
Holy Spirit “who is the surety of our inheritance until the redemption of the
purchased possession, unto the praise of His glory.” Now look at this; let’s put our three part
analysis again. Who is the one who is
the surety here? It’s the Holy
Spirit. What is it that He is assuring
us of? What responsibility does the Holy
Spirit undertake on behalf of us as believers?
To “the earnest of our inheritance until the redemption of the purchased
possession.” Do you know what the Holy
Spirit is saying? He’s taken the
responsibility to get us conformed to Christ.
He’s taken the responsibility to bring us into the line of
predestination so that we are now going to in the future be conformed to
Christ. And the Holy Spirit has said to
the Father, I take responsibility for that.
There again you have the grace attitude shown by the Holy Spirit. He has undertaken, and by the way, in loud
and clear letters this spells the doctrine of eternal security. The Holy Spirit has become a guarantee that
we will arrive in the state for which we have been ordained.
But what is the
last analysis of all of this? We have
seen other passages, 2 Corinthians has two more passages but they’re analogous
to Ephesians 1:14. The idea is that God
the Son and God the Holy Spirit have become surety; they have become surety out
of no obligation to us. That’s
grace. They have become surety of the
Word of God because the new covenant and the doctrine of predestination is the
Word of God. They have guaranteed the
performance of the Word of God. Now look
at that.
When you claim, as
a believer, a promise, Romans 8:28, “All things work together for good,” just
think a minute. When you think of 1
Thessalonians 5, “In everything give thanks, for this is the will of God in
Christ Jesus concerning you.” When you
think of 1 Peter 5:7, “Casting all you care upon Him, for He cares for you,” do
you realize that behind those promises are two people who have guaranteed, like
Judah guaranteed to Jacob that is this son doesn’t return Jacob, I take
responsibility forever. Do you know what
Jesus Christ has done for you and for me?
If the Word of God doesn’t come true in your life I take responsibility
forever. Christ has voluntarily become
surety for God’s promises. And so we
have an economic insight into the plan of salvation.
But there’s one
further point, one further application that is needed and that’s in Matthew
5. We have seen the economic sphere, we
have seen how the economic sphere mirrors part of the plan of salvation, gives
insight to it, and now the reason why in the economic sphere you act one way,
whereas God in the sphere of grace acts another way.
In Matthew 5:33 we
have Jesus Christ teaching this statement.
“Again, you have heard that it has been said by them of old, Thou shalt
not forswear [perjure] thyself, but shalt perform unto the Lord thine oaths;
[34] But I say unto you, Swear not at all; neither by heaven, for it is God’s
throne; [35] Nor by the earth, for it is his footstool; neither by Jerusalem,
for it is the city of the great King.
[36] Neither shalt thou swear by your head, because you cannot make one
hair white or black. [37] But let your
communication be Yea, yea; Nay, nay; for whatever is more than these comes of
evil one,” not of evil, “of the evil one.”
Why is this? Christ is again
asserting the same theme of Proverbs 6, believer choose your freedom, don’t you
get obligated to something. And you
can’t, as He says here, change, “make your one hair white or black.” This is why God can enter a surety agreement,
because He is God. And God can guarantee
because God has the sovereign power to back up His guarantee.
But when a
believer, operating in Satan’s world, puts himself as a surety he becomes
obligated to some person, some organization and behind that organization is
Satan. And that’s why Christ says you
watch it, don’t you get yourself sucked up into obligations because the one
behind that is the evil one. This verse
is not saying there are not legitimate kinds of contracts because obviously in
Christ’s own physical trial He Himself accepted the idea of swearing in court;
this is not an attack against all swearing in court, this is not an attack
against all concepts, it is using wisdom to select the ones that are wise and
reject the ones that are satanic.
Maybe some of you
as believers never realized this before, but you watch it in your business; you
watch it in areas where you can hemmed in by getting in league or in obligation
with people that you know you should have no business getting in league
with. Pick your friends, even your
business associates, wisely. Satan’s
active there just as he is on every other front.