Clough Manhood Series Lesson 12
Jacob: Male
Drive without Wisdom – Genesis 30-32
This morning this is a very good question, a very good question, a very
good kind of a challenge to what I said and I’d like to respond to this
challenge because it shows that I didn’t make myself clear as I often times don’t. Your distinction of psychiatry/psychology and
pastorship leaves no room for the gift of exhortation
and words of wisdom, which as I see it have every possibility of being distinct
from the gift of pastor-teacher. A
Christian psychologist with such gifts and using them biblically has every
right to offer counsel. The problem,
then, is not the domain of the professions but rather the use of human
viewpoint or divine viewpoint in these areas.
I beg to differ; we still are back over to the domain of the
professions for this reason, that the moment a psychologist offers counsel, my
claim would be that he’s no longer acting as a psychologist; he’s acting as a
counselor. A barber could give you
counsel, if he had the gift of exhortation fine, but don’t pretend he’s
barbering you while he’s giving you counsel; let’s just label it for what it
is. Counsel from a psychologist is not
psychology. Counsel from a psychologist
is counsel like it would be from an auto mechanic or a barber. It differs in no way. In other words, my claim is that his training
in psychology equips him in no way whatsoever for counseling. It equips him for doing research in learning
theory and other areas, but it does not equip him to do counseling. Any Christian is as qualified, without
psychological training, as any psychologist is, for this reason: three things
are needed in a counseling process and the psychologist doesn’t have any more
advantage over these than the average believer.
The first thing is that he needs a mandate from God to interfere with
people’s lives. Now I see nowhere in
Scripture where the field of psychology has a special mandate to intrude in
people’s lives. The only command mandate
we have is if you have the gift of counsel, then use it, but that isn’t
addressed to a psychologist; it’s addressed to any person with the gift. So use that gift.
The second thing is that the psychologist has no theological framework
to operate with because of his psychology.
Whatever theological framework he has is from areas outside of his
psychology. And you cannot work with
people who are having problems and not face theological questions; it’s
impossible. You can’t do it because the
question is ought I to do this or ought I to do that. That’s a theological question. And therefore, my claim is that psychology
has nothing to do with that process.
That’s a separate and distinct process.
It comes to its most professional expression in the pastorship,
but it’s also true, anyone with the gift of the word of wisdom ought to use
it. But as far as professions are
concerned, psychiatry and psychology are out of their pew when they are working
in the area of counseling. They have no
theological tools, they have no mandate from God, and they have no corner on
God’s grace.
My claim is that the profession of the clergy has all three. So therefore, in this situation we argue and
insist that the field of psychiatry and psychology are valid fields, but as
fields they cannot give counsel. They
may, but while they’re doing it they’re no more expression their psychology or
their psychiatry than a barber or an auto mechanic would be expressing the
field of barbering, telling you what you ought to do tomorrow, or the auto
mechanic who might be a Christian giving you advice in Scripture. Give the advice, yes, but don’t label it as
that’s part of my profession of being a barber, or that’s part of my profession
of being an auto mechanic, or that’s part of my profession as a psychologist;
it isn’t.
Okay, let’s go to the book of Genesis and continue our study on the
doctrine of the man; tonight we’re starting in Genesis 31 and in Genesis 31 we’re
faced with the third man of the patriarchs, Jacob. Abraham, to kind of review where we are, you
remember that Abraham, not Sarah, was party to the covenant. The fact that the man is party to the
spiritual covenant is manifested in the writ of circumcision. I was interested in reading the last two or
three weeks The Jerusalem Post and there was an article in there on the
women’s lib movement in Israel. And the women’s lib in Israel is facing a very
unusual problem and that is they face the rite of circumcision, and so they’re
trying to figure out some sort of equal expression that would fit their role,
and it’s a big long thing, about a paragraph about how they’re trying to work
this one. God must be laughing at the
whole thing because he set up spiritual responsibilities and expressed in a
rite pertinent only to the man. And so
therefore we have a little contemporary fallout from Abraham’s covenant.
Then we came to Isaac, and we saw that Isaac was one level below his
father, Abraham. He declined; Abraham
had the two male qualities of toughness and tenderness; toughness which we
defined as endurance in the face of adversity to God’s goal and he had that
because of his implicit trust in sovereignty.
And then he had a tenderness develop because of his years of experience
with grace. But then we come to Isaac
and in Isaac’s case, though he had a woman selected on divine viewpoint
principles as his wife, he apparently was unable to maintain control of his
family so that we find in the end Rebekah taking
spiritual leadership of the home. Now we
can quibble about whether Rebekah and Jacob did right
or they did wrong when she put Jacob up to theft and deception. As I said, that’s a debatable point and it’s
hard because Genesis is not explicitly giving us any information whether it’s
right or wrong, and Genesis is written that way; it’s just the style of the
book so it’s hard to come to a conclusion.
It just describes what happens and it leaves the reader to draw his own
conclusions to what happened and why it happened. And we get information that’s kind of both
ways. Probably the best way of summing
it up would say no, that wasn’t the ideal situation, but God didn’t appear to
hold them unduly responsible given their level of spiritual development at that
point in their life.
But the tragedy of Isaac was that he failed to operate on the long-term
basics. Abraham saw into the
future. That’s why the book of Hebrews
says that he looked for a city that had eternal foundations. Abraham was a future-centered male and
because he was he was a stable male. But
Isaac, his son, didn’t carry this over from his dad. He picked up much more of a present-centered
thing and thus it was that he preferred Esau over Jacob. Why?
It had nothing to do with the covenant; it would have been different had
the covenant been promised to Esau and then Isaac would have sort of gravitated
to Esau rather than his other son Jacob, because after all, Esau was going to
be the carrier of God’s Word into the future generations. If that had been the case there might be some
valid reasons for Isaac’s preference of sons, but that wasn’t the reason. The reason the Scripture gives for his
preference of Esau over Jacob is simply the fact that he liked to eat the
venison that his son caught, a very shortsighted goal. And it shows the weakness of this male
horizon of a present-centered man, operating on present-centered goals,
satisfied with present blessings rather than setting aside the pleasant
blessings to obtain greater and more enjoyable future blessings.
That is a key and I’ve noticed that now in preparation for Jacob and I
think we’re going to see this most drastically in the case of Moses. What made most of these men great was their
willingness to defer present pleasure for future pleasure. That was the key to their maturity, and it
took them great discipline to do it but all the great men of Scripture had that
quality. They were in that sense future
centered men; they lived for tomorrow, not for today; not in the “pie in the
sky” bad way. So often time people
characterize future-centered people that way, that’s not the point. A future-centered man, for example, in
business, will look to future investments; he’ll look up to building up his
reservoir of wisdom, building up his reservoirs of wealth, saving and
accumulating capital for the future. Now
that’s precisely the opposite of the present-centered man who spends and he
wastes his capital on the immediate present and then has nothing for the future
and so therefore becomes a slave to the government. But the future-oriented man wants to be his
own man under God’s law and he doesn’t want the government to step in and take
over his life and so he saves and he prepares for contingency. Isaac lacked that quality and thus his wife
took over in the vacuum.
Now we come to the third man Jacob. Abraham, Isaac and Jacob, these are
the three patriarchs. Over and over
again in the Scriptures God is the God of Abraham, of Isaac, and of Jacob. These men put character into the Jew. And the last of the three men, Jacob, this
man was the man after whom God makes no distinction; from now on he has his
sons and those sons become the tribes and we’re right here at the founding of
the nation. Jacob’s character, on the
positive side, gives the Jew his character, but Jacob’s character also had a
negative side and it was that negative side of his character that God had to
purge by a 400 year tour of duty in Egypt for his sons.
Jacob had, positively, a toughness; he was a man who endured in his
business; he prevailed and came from being a pauper to a millionaire, wealthy
man, and he did it by hard work. He was
resilient, he faced all kinds of problems in his life and he finally, toward
the end accumulated power and wealth.
And he was a strong man. That was
Jacob’s strength and it’s that strength of character that has made the Jew what
he is down through history, the driving over-achiever. You can see this; you take a statistical
survey of Jewish families and look at where the sons of those families go, and
then take a similar sampling of Gentile families and watch where the sons of
those Gentile families go. You’ll
inevitably see that the sons of the Jewish family are always encouraged to go
to school, to get educated, to get into business, always drive, drive, drive,
goal, accomplishment; the emphasis always on production. Well, that character comes from Jacob and the
Jew can no more erase that quality of his character than he can stop
breathing. Jacob gave that and God is
behind that character. They have to have
that character to maintain their role in the world scene. So the resiliency of Jacob’s character is his
strong point as a man.
But his weak point is that he picks up the learned behavior pattern of
his father, Isaac. Isaac had, as his
weakness, the fact that he failed to look into the long-term future; he was a
present-centered man. And lo and behold,
Jacob inherits that. Now up to this
point we have talked about learned behavior patterns and we have talked how
these learned behavior patterns are taught in the home and so on. We want to make a little distinction here;
maybe it’s a little fine distinction but maybe it’ll help some.
Learned behavior patterns can be picked up in each of the divine
institutions. For example, we can have a
learned behavior pattern that we pick up just because of our behavior as an adult,
things that we’ve learned to do or not to do and we’ve acquired these after we’ve
become an adult. Those would be learned
behavior patterns which we have [can’t understand word] rising out of our own
responsibility or lack thereof. Then we
pick up learned behavior patterns because of whom we marry and our relationship
with our spouse. We trade off, and usually, unfortunately it’s the worst
behavior patterns, we trade these off and we learn these. It doesn’t have to be that way but it often
is. But most important is the learned
behavior patterns that are picked up in the home and these are taught and
carried on into the future. Those are
the ones that Jacob carries from his father.
We said his father was a short-term man; his father preferred venison to
God’s covenant, and therefore Esau preferred venison to the covenant, and
therefore gladly sold his meaningless covenant (in thought) for pottage.
Now when Jacob, raised in that kind of a home situation, saw that
situation, apparently it rubbed into his soul and so he picked up the –R
learned behavior patterns from his father, emphasis on the present, and Jacob
then combined that behavior pattern with his drive, his tremendous drive and
his ability to gain wealth and to endure.
Put the two together and what do you have? You have the self-made man, and Jacob, except
toward the end of his life, becomes the self-made man, the hard driver businessman whose home goes to hell in a basket,
because while Jacob had great concern that he gather wealth for himself he
evidently never raised the serious question, yes Jacob, it’s all very fine but
tell me something—Jacob, who’s going to inherit and use your wealth? Well, my sons. Fine.
And how are your sons going to use your wealth, Jacob? What have you taught them? Do you know your sons?
Have you trained your sons so they don’t dissipate your wealth. You’ve accumulated wealth and thousands of
dollars, maybe millions of dollars throughout your lifetime; what have you
taught your sons. When you die, Jacob,
will your sons dissipate your wealth and all will be finished and your
contribution just kind of like vapor, pass away from history? Will your sons be able to carry on after you’re
gone? Will you live through your sons or
will you just disappear from history?
Jacob never asked the question; obviously he never answered it, so God
answered it for him. Jacob, your sons
are going to go down in prison in Egypt and in Egypt I am going to teach your
sons the character you haven’t taught them, and they’ll learn, and after 400
years of training in Egypt they’ll come forth with the character necessary to
go with the drive of your soul and then we’ll have our nation, but as it is,
Jacob is only able to give to his sons the drive but he isn’t able to give to
his sons the long-term concerns about spiritual goals. It’s like a car with a very powerful motor
but with a very weak steering wheel.
Jacob has a powerful motor and he has no guidance, and the result is
shown in the life of his son. And this
is a portrait, then, of a certain kind of man; a certain kind of man that is a
strong, active doer, a high, what we’ll call over-achiever, a man whose always
concerned about beating out his competition; a man who is concerned about
driving in his career, advancing in his career, but then never asking the
question, where does that lead?
Where does that lead? I remember
when I first came here going out to one of the rock festivals that they had and
interestingly most of the hippies that we talked to in that situation were sons
and daughters of wealthy upper class Dallas businessmen. And one of the interesting things, not
condoning everything that they said but one of the interesting things was that
their parents had stressed over and over the ethic of hard work but they never
gave the spiritual goals; why work hard.
Well, to gain wealth. What are
you going to do with the wealth? Well,
use it to enjoy ourselves. How are you
going to enjoy yourselves? In other
words, pressing back to the ultimate goals of your life, and they couldn’t
answer them because they never asked them.
That’s Jacob. And Jacob can’t be
a covenant man and have that kind of character; it’s got to be torn out of his
soul, painfully. And so while Jacob has
his assets he also has his faults.
In Genesis 31 and 32 we see the business side of Jacob. This is the positive character; here’s where
he develops his tremendous drive. And in
here he can act as a model for man; not that every man has to be this much of
an achiever, a super achiever. But
nevertheless, Jacob shows you that a man can be this kind of achiever unto
God. In Genesis 30:43, the introduction
to this, the set up for these two chapters.
The story, of course, is that Jacob has gone north to escape Esau; he
finds a wife, we’ll get to that later.
He’s in Syria where Isaac got his wife from and while he’s there, verse
43, “And the man increased
exceedingly, and had much cattle, and maidservants, and menservants, and
camels, and asses.” These are his
economic assets; he is a man of wealth and means, and he got them the hard
way. He’s grown and he’s prosperous; he
came with nothing and now he goes with everything.
He’s much like many
of the families who have come to this country in the early part of the 20th
century, late part of the 19th century, probably many of your
parents if you examine your family tree came to this country, and they came
away from the cesspool of Europe, in order that they could come here and earn
wealth without the government interfering with at point in their lives, and
they made it and they did it without social security and they did it without
welfare and they did it without unemployment insurance. They risked but they also gained. Some of them didn’t but a lot of them
did. Show me another country where that
many people gained.
All right, Jacob
gained; he was a man who went to a foreign country, Syria. He was an immigrant and he worked hard and he
gained health. Genesis 30:1, “And he
heard the words of Laban’s sons, saying, Jacob hath
taken away all that was our father’s; and of that which was our father’s hath
he gotten all this glory.” That’s the
cry of the impotent men; that’s always the cry of the weakling, that the strong
has taken away my wealth. That’s the cry of the socialist politician who
would love to turn the masses against the high achievers; who always want to
downgrade those who are the great people, by arguing this way—that there’s only
a finite amount of wealth and therefore if the finite amount of wealth is accumulated
by the wealthy you’ve taken away from the poor.
Only one very bad assumption behind that, and that is that wealth is a
constant. Who said it was a constant? Why can’t the weakling generate wealth? Wealth doesn’t have to be a conservative element;
it can be increased. So the argument
breaks down on its fundamental assumption, the conservation of wealth: there is
no conservation of wealth.
God says subdue the
earth; that’s not a conservation. It
doesn’t say keep the wealth, He says make the wealth, produce it. That’s why the socialist argument breaks
down. But nevertheless, the feeling, the
mentality, there’s jealousy and that’s all it is; let’s say it for what it
is. And that’s the same thing that
politicians and the commentators encouraging in the (quote) “down-trodden
classes” of America. They’re teaching
the masses to envy, to be jealous, to hate; it’s an inculcation of a systematic
mental attitude sin and Laban and his family have
it.
Genesis 31:2, “And Jacob beheld
the countenance of Laban, and, behold, it was not
toward him as before.
[3] And the LORD said unto
Jacob, [Return unto the land of thy fathers, and to thy kindred; and I will be
with thee.”] get out of here. And so now
this immigrant to Syria is told to move on and go back to your homeland, you’ve
done enough. In verse 3 we have the
result of Jacob’s trust. Jacob’s work in
the land, he trusted the Lord in the face of business pressure after business
pressure, job adversity after job adversity, and he stayed with it until the
Lord said get out! He didn’t chicken
out, he didn’t quit, he kept at it very patiently until God said now Jacob,
that’s enough; now get out. That’s
something to learn, when to leave.
Now Genesis 31:4-16
Jacob calls his wives, and we have a model here of a family conference. Verse 4, notice, “And Jacob sent and called
Rachel and Leah to the field unto his flock,” in other words, to his place of
business. He brings his wives in to
consult and lets his wives give him advice, even in the area of his
business. He, in other words, gives them
opportunity of being ‘ezers to him. They have something and he wants to hear it;
he may not pass on it but he wants to hear what his wife has to say. He says, [5] “I see your father’s
countenance, that it is not toward me as before; but the God of my father hath
been with me. [6] And ye know
that with all my power I have served your father. [7] And your father hath deceived me, and changed my wages ten
times; but God suffered him not to hurt me.”
See that last part; exactly what we said this morning in 1 Corinthians
10:13, “There has no testing taken you but such as is common to man. And this is the attitude that Jacob had, that
he was going to trust the Lord with this situation, that God would not permit
him to be hurt.
Now what does he mean
to be hurt? Well, it doesn’t mean hurt
his feelings. Jacob’s feelings could
have been hurt time after time after time after time. Well, what does the hurt mean? Well in the context what has been the chapter
so far; verse 43 of the previous chapter, what was it? Accumulation of
wealth. And what it is saying here is
that no matter how many times his employer fiddled with the wages, and sort of
twisted and turned the letter of the contract Jacob still prospers, and he
prospered some more, and he prospered some more. He prospered in spite of his employer.
But now things have
come to a head; the father it says, [8] “If he said thus, The speckled shall be
thy wages; then all the cattle bare speckled: and if he said thus, The ringstraked shall be thy hire; then bare all the cattle ringstraked.” The
point is that he had certain parts of his heard and Laban
would go out in the field and figure out which are the lousiest bearers, which
is probably going to bear the least and he’d say okay, Jacob, that’s your
portion. And the moment he’d do that they’d start producing like crazy. Sort of like the women in Lubbock Bible
Church. And so as this went on he’d
change, and Laban would say oh, I’ve changed my mind,
it’s this over here, those will be yours.
And so they’d start in producing.
And so it was obvious that God was in it. [9]
Thus God hath taken away the cattle of your father, and given them to me. [10]
And it came to pass at the time that the cattle conceived, that I lifted up
mine eyes, and saw in a dream,” and he goes on with this dream showing how God
has told him to get out.
Genesis 31:14-16, his
wives respond in this family conference.
“And Rachel and Leah answered and said unto him, Is there yet any
portion or inheritance for us in our father’s house? [15]
Are we not counted of him strangers? for he hath sold
us, and hath quite devoured also our money. [16]
For all the riches which God hath taken from our father, that is ours, and our
children’s: now then, whatsoever God hath said unto thee, do.” See, the women were spiritually perceptive
women. When Jacob pays for his wives with seven years labor assets were
transferred over to Laban and his family. Now Laban thought…
this was not necessary, by the way, a man didn’t have to work like that, that
was just Laban being kind of snotty about the whole
thing, and he realized he had a corner on the market because he knew that the
Abraham family would never send their boys up except to marry their daughters,
so he sort of had a closed deal. So he
just put the screws onto Jacob and Jacob said okay, we’ve given an X amount of
resources; I’ve worked seven years for both, there’s fourteen years wages.
What this verse is
telling us is that the girls recognized that though their dad had faked out
their husband, what had happened in the ensuing business deals, over the
long-term I might add, the long-term, that their husbands got back all the
money that he had paid to their father.
And so they’re recognizing here in verses 14-16 the unity of the family;
they’re recognizing Genesis 2:25, therefore shall a person, that’s in the male
side but it’s also holds to the girls, separate themselves from their parents
and become one flesh with their spouse.
And so the separation occurs and they agree to it. He has a family conference and they come to a
definite conclusion. Notice they talk
over their problems and notice they come to a definite solution. There is not trading of insults, there’s no
name-calling, there’s no accusing the other one, there is a planned conference
that leads to a definite conclusion.
That’s a productive family conference.
And it goes on to
describe what happened after that. [17]
“Then Jacob rose up, and set his sons and his wives upon camels;” and they
evacuated the area. It speaks in verse
19, “And Laban went to shear his sheep: and Rachel
had stolen the images that were her father’s.”
Now for years and years scholars could not figure out what is going on
with the stealing of the images; she takes them away and Laban
finds out and goes after them with a
little bit of a minor private army, and he comes in verse 26 and he says, “What hast you done, that
thou hast stolen away unawares to me, and carried away my daughters, as
captives taken with the sword? [27] Wherefore didst thou flee away
secretly,” but he’s really looking for his stolen images. And you read on down through the interrogation,
verse 32, [“With whomsoever thou findest thy gods,
let him not live: before our brethren discern thou what is thine
with me, and take it to thee. For Jacob knew not that Rachel had stolen them.”]
Jacob did not know that Rachel had stolen these images, [33] And Laban went into Jacob’s tent, and into Leah’s tent, and
into the two maidservants’ tents; but he found them not. Then went he out of
Leah’s tent, and entered into Rachel’s tent. [34] But “Rachel had taken the
images, and put them in the camel’s furniture, and sat upon them. And Laban searched all the tent, but found them not. [35] And she said to her father, Let it not
displease my lord that I cannot rise up before thee; for the custom of women is
upon me. [And he searched, but found not
the images.]” She’s claiming she has a
bad period, so sorry daddy, I can’t get down from the camel. Now women have been known to use menstruation
for a number of excuses but this is probably original with Rachel.
Now what is the
meaning of these images? The images were
the seal of the inheritance. Now we know
from ancient Near Eastern law that was the custom; that’s why he’s so bugged by
these images; it’s like having the family will, that’s what she’s walked off
with. So they ripped off their dad,
that’s what they did, figured he’s a rip off artist so it comes naturally. So they just walked away with the family
will. And it goes on and describes how
Jacob finally gets mad, at this treatment of the hands of Laban,
and when he does so he gives him a little sermon. Genesis 31:36, And Jacob was very angry, and
he said to Laban, “What is my trespass?” now
beginning in verse 36 and going to verse 42 you have the business philosophy of
Jacob; in a nutshell this is what made Jacob a wealthy man. It capuslizes the
mental attitude this man had; watch it carefully, because we have a problem in
our own… no matte what is taught it will always be
tangled up in its application; I’ve just conceded this, no matter what I say,
it’ll always be misapplied. Now I’ve
done one thing, I’ve taken the right man/right woman thing out of the marriage
service and I’ve done that because I find people taking advantage of that
little point and wandering around, is he going to divorce this and divorce that
until I find my right woman. That’s not
what we’re talking about when we’re talking about right man/right woman. So we’re just kissing that little label off
for a while until we calm down in our misapplication of that truth, and
therefore the wedding services from now on will reflect that.
But we also have the
other thing and that’s the problem that we have taught, the man’s job is to
subdue the earth. Fine, so the man has
this vision out in the future, magnificent towers, this is a great career out
here in the future and I’m going to subdue the earth, that’s my field. And so I’m going to shoot for that
field. Now what’ great; only one
problem, fatalism comes into this vision.
And we forget there is a certain set of means to get to that goal. We don’t sit here and contemplate our navel
or infinity and let this kind of just drop down in our lap. That ultimate goal may be forty years in the
future; it may be more in the future, there may be lots of other jobs and hard
work in between before you get to that; that’s good, you’ve got to have a
vision of the future; fine. But there
are moves to get there. Now you watch
what Jacob does here.
Jacob’s vision,
ultimate vision, was to come back; he knew he had to come back into the land
and he knew enough of God’s covenant to know that somehow it meant being
wealthy in Canaan; but he’s not in Canaan.
When he was under Laban he was up in
Syria. So he describes his
attitude. Genesis 31:38, “These twenty
years have I been with you,” so for twenty years Jacob did not achieve his
final goal of being Mr. Wealthy Patriarch in the Promised Land. For twenty
years he was out of the land doing all sorts of menial work until God promoted
him, and when God promoted him, he was right in the right spot. Now why did God finally promote him? Because this whole agonizing, year after year
after year of frustration getting to that final goal, from his point of view might
have been frustration, from God’s it wasn’t, it was sanctifying. God was teaching Jacob a certain kind of
character because God had to have that character in Jacob’s soul that would
become the hallmark of Yisrael. Remember Jacob’s name is Israel, it’s going
to become Israel. And that drive, that
incentive, that resiliency, has to be there to be passed on to his sons, and to
characterize the nation. He’s not going
to get it if God gave it to him on a platter.
In other words, he has to get promoted up through the ranks.
All right, let’s
watch for what he does. For twenty years
he’s been in this, he didn’t get it instantly.
Oh, I’ve got a vision, my field is being a wealthy patriarch in Canaan;
come on God, just drop it in here, I’m going to sit here until you drop it. No, twenty years went by, of hard work, until
he got to that point. “…thy ewes and thy
she goats have not cast their young, and the rams of thy flock have I not
eaten.” “Casting the young,” this is
natural abortion, this is due to lack of proper diet, proper nutrition. In other words, he’s saying I’ve taken care
of your flock. What did he do during
those twenty years; what was some of the attitudes that this guy had, so that
he finally go to where God wanted him? He did the job at hand well; very simple
attitude.
All right, big deal,
like David out in the field; you know it’s not very romantic chasing a bunch of
dumb goats and sheep all over the rocks.
But that was his responsibility then, it wasn’t to be Mr. Wealthy
Patriarch then; then it was just to
do his job with the goats and the sheep so whatsoever he does, he does it
heartily as unto the Lord, not unto men, and he does a good job.
Look further: [39] “That which was torn of beasts I
brought not unto thee; I bare the loss of it; of my hand didst thou require it,
whether stolen by day, or stolen by night.”
He was gracious, he even absorbed unfair losses in his business while
this was going on. Now this is not an
excuse to be a doormat. It’s just saying
in this situation Jacob didn’t get bitter and resentful; if he couldn’t solve
the problem he faith-rested the problem.
Now you’ll see that he is not a doormat because right here he’s
insisting that he break with Laban. So this does not indicate that he’s not a
courageous man; it indicates that he knew when to do something and when he
couldn’t do anything; he just relaxed and left it in the Lord’s hands. So
he got business losses; clearly verse 39 is teaching he absorbed many, many,
many losses.
In verse 40, “Thus I was; in the
day the drought consumed me, and the frost by night; and my sleep departed from
mine eyes.” That was just hard work,
doing the nitty-gritty very unromantic mundane stuff, but Jacob wasn’t beneath
doing that; Jacob worked at the nitty-gritty.
He said well, gee, out here in the drought, that’s not my field, my
field is being a rich patriarch in Canaan.
Well, as far as God was concerned that was his field just then. And then later on he could do his thing. Now this is too bad but every guy has to
learn it and it’s very humbling to get some college degree and you’ve been
promised this myth by our society the you get some college degree and
automatically doors open all over the place and you suddenly find that doors
don’t open all over the place and you wind up doing something that seems to be
beneath your dignity. Well, that’s great because there we learn to faith-rest
and just roll with it and keep on moving and don’t let it get you down. Well, this is the lesson that Jacob had to
learn.
[41] “I been twenty years in thy
house; I served thee fourteen years for thy two daughters, and six years for
thy cattle: and thou hast changed my wages ten times. [42]
Except the God of my father, the God of Abraham, and the fear of Isaac, had
been with me, surely you had sent me away now empty. God hath seen mine
affliction and the labor of my hands, and rebuked thee last night.” This is God protecting him. So notice the resiliency of Jacob. And finally in verse 42 the vision he’s
talking about here, Jacob took it, he took it, he took it, and then finally God
said okay Jacob, that’s enough. Now I’m
sure by the nineteenth year Jacob must have had some questions, about how long,
O Lord, is this mess going to go on in my business life? How long
is this going to go on? Just one more
year because finally when it just got ready to break, God gave it.
Now look at the
advantages of Jacob not quitting. First
of all, he got character out of all this; you cannot buy character. A college degree does not give character;
character is a product of your historical experience. And that’s the only place where character is
generated. This is why Jesus Christ has
said in Hebrews 5 He learned obedience, even though He was God’s Son. Jesus Christ developed character by adversities
and pressure. Jesus Christ became
resilient but the character was an accomplishment; a character which Jacob
would not have had had he not spent 20 long years getting to (quote) “his
field.”
Another thing, a
by-product of it, how was Jacob going to get his wealth. Isaac didn’t have that much wealth, not
enough wealth to start a nation off with.
The wealth is going to be a by-product of doing it God’s way. And so there are a number of other things
that we could point to but Jacob was blessed; blessed because he stayed with
the program.
In Genesis 32:1-6 we
find another aspect of his business life.
He comes back to the land and now he’s worried about past due accounts,
namely one by the name of Esau. See, he ripped off Esau the last time he saw
him. Esau was ready to murder his
brother the last time he saw him, and now he’s coming back to the land and this
stands in his way. What is he going to
do with Esau? Now here is a most
eloquent application of faith-resting and faith-doing. God, in the covenant, promises protection to
Jacob. The protection is in the long-term. In the long-term God guarantees Jacob
protection. So you would say,
fatalistically, well, Jacob, there’s no problem with Esau, just go down and
relax. Jacob didn’t see it that way
because Jacob understood something, that God’s promises don’t come automatically
true; they come true by means and by means of applied wisdom.
So Jacob is going to
take short-term wisdom to get over from A to B, to get from B to C, to get from
C to D, and then he knows that God will protect him overall, all the way down to
Z, but he’s not concerned with leaping from point A to point Z; he’s concerned
with moving just a little bit from point A to point B, then we’ll get to C,
then we’ll get to D. Well, how does he
make these little pieces; these mini moves?
By applying wisdom and common sense.
Now Jacob had access
to God in direct revelation, but isn’t it interesting that when faced with this
jam of Esau, even though he has the general assurance of God’s direct
revelation, he does not rely on direct revelation for the little steps he has
to make. He relies instead upon
wisdom. Let’s watch. Genesis 32:3, “Jacob sent messengers before
him to Esau, his brother…. [4] And he
commanded them, saying, Thus shall ye speak unto my lord, Esau: Thy servant
Jacob says thus, I have sojourned with Laban, and
stayed there until now. [5] I have oxen,
and asses, flocks…” and so on, “and I have sent to tell my lord, that I may
find grace in thy sight. [6] And the
messengers returned to Jacob, saying, We came to thy brother, Esau, and he
comes forth to meet you with four hundred men.
[7] Then Jacob was greatly afraid and distressed.” Now at this point it’s not necessarily an act
of unbelief. What Jacob is doing is practicing an old tried and true business
tactic; diversified investment, planning for contingency, and that’s exactly
what you notice.
“Jacob was greatly
afraid,” so what did he do? He divided
his assets, “he divided the people that were with him, and the flocks, and
herds, and the camels, into two bands.
[8] And said, If Esau come to the one company, and smite it, then the
other company which is left shall escape.”
Now that’s shrewdness; there’s wisdom; diversification of investment,
not putting all his eggs in one basket.
That’s not hedging, that in no way says that he’s not a man of faith
here. He is a man of wisdom. God isn’t necessary to tell him that. It’s like Adam naming the animals, probably
God wouldn’t have told Adam and he probably wouldn’t have told Jacob. Jacob, I created you with brains between your
ears; use them, just once, to go from point A to point B. Don’t use direct revelation, just kind of
blind guidance, now I have this business decision, and I’m going to pray about
it and then I’m going to spin my Bible and then turn around and the first thing,
there, what does it say? “And after him
was the son of Dodo.” So what do you do
with that kind of guidance. That is
using the Bible as a soothsaying device; that’s what that is; that is not only
bad Christian theology, it’s magic; it’s a paganization
of a use of Scripture and yet people say they make decisions that way. It’s ridiculous. Jacob was a man of dominion and he doesn’t
make decisions that way, he uses common sense.
Now he does something
else that’s very, very shrewd indeed. In
his dealings he goes, Genesis 32:9, “And Jacob said, O God of my father,
Abraham,” he prays, verses 9 and 10, “and God of my father, Isaac, the LORD who
said unto me, Return unto thy country…. [10] I am not worthy of the lest of all the mercies, and of all the truth, which You
have shown unto thy servant; for with my staff I passed over this Jordan; and
now I am become two bands. [11] Deliver
me, I ray thee, from the hand of my brother,” now do you see what he’s
doing. In verses 7-8 he’s faith-doing;
he’s using wisdom principles to back up for a conclusion that he might
face. But then in verses 9-11 there’s no
tension with praying about it at the same time.
The praying and the doing go together; they’re not separate, it’s not
either/or, it’s both and. He doesn’t sit
back and just pray. He does pray, but he
does more than that. Notice, verses 7-8
aren’t the only thing that he does. He
prays for protection, verses 9-12, he divides his flock, verses 7-8.
Now what does he do
in Genesis 32:13-14? “He lodged there
the same night; and took of that which came to his hand a present for Esau, his
brother; [14] Two hundred she-goats, and twenty he-goats, two hundred ewes, and
twenty rams, [15] Thirty milk camels with their colts,” and so on, [16] “And he
delivered them into the hand of his servants, every one drove by themselves;
and said unto his servants, Pass over before me, and put a space between drove
and drove. [17] And he commanded the
foremost, saying, When Esau, my brother, meets thee, and asks thee, saying,
whose are you? And where are you going?
And whose are these before you? [18]
Then you shall say, They are thy servant’s Jacob; it is a present, sent unto my
lord, Esau, and, behold, he’s behind us.
[19] And so commanded he the second, and the third, and all that
followed the droves, saying, On this manner shall ye speak unto Esau, when ye
find him. [20] And ye shall say Jacob is
behind us. For he said, I will appease
him with the present that goes before me, and afterward I will see his face;
perhaps he will accept me.”
Jacob knows the men
he does business with. He knows their
sin natures, he knows their character; Esau is a degenerate, and he treats him
like a degenerate. This man accepts nothing
but present centered gifts; give him his gifts if that’s what he wants, give it
to him. That’s just wisdom, there’s
nothing unethical about that at all, it’s just simply wisdom. You deal with some person that likes gifts;
he’s like a little boy, he doesn’t like to unwrap his presents all at once; he
likes to stretch it out a little bit.
And so therefore he sends the first gift of presents, and Esau gets all
excited and then he has a space, because he figures it’ll take him, maybe
thirty minutes to unwrap that set of presents, we thirty minutes down the road
we’ll bring another load in, and now he starts unwrapping this and for a whole
day all he’s doing is he’s unwrapping presents.
And so this is an emotional man who doesn’t have doctrine, he’s all
turned on, fine, turn him on, you have to do business with him that way. That may shock some of you to know this but
do you know the Scriptures never say that bribe is wrong; the receiving of a
bribe is wrong, not the giving of a bribe.
You say that’s nitpicking—huh-uh, not at all, there’s a very big
difference between offering a bribe and receiving one. That’s what’s wrong with our Pharisees in the
press, that’s against Lockheed and so on for bribing these outfits they do
business with. There’s nothing wrong with Lockheed bribing, everybody does it,
so Lockheed does it too. That’s the
nature of the business world; they’re idiots to accept it on the other end but
if he’s an idiot give him his bribe.
Christians use bribes, this is what’s happening with the iron curtain,
it’s how we get Bibles across the iron curtain, we buy off the guards; the
guards like cigarettes so fine, if they like cigarettes give them their
cigarettes while they turn their face so I can get my Bible across.
Strange? This strikes you as somehow immoral but
nowhere in Scripture in all of the Scripture of the Mosaic Law and the [can’t
understand word] have I ever been able to find one attack against bribery. It’s always against receiving bribes, never
against giving bribes. In fact, there’s
one proverb that can be even interpreted go ahead, give the guy a bribe so they
can turn the other way. In this case,
our laws in America are stricter than the Scriptures. The Scriptures allow us more latitude here
than the State does. Now in a way that
shows weakness because you see, why is it wrong to offer a weak person a
bribe? Now that itself isn’t wrong; the
crime is the weak person accepting it. See, the fact that we have laws against
bribing people is because we have such a weak people that they need the
protection of that kind of a law. If we
had people of character that kind of a law would be unnecessary, wouldn’t
it? Why make a law to protect some
little imbecile from accepting a bribe.
If he’s an imbecile the only way he can be stopped is take away his
toys. So that’s the reason we have this
overly strict law.
Well, what we have
here is systematic bribery. And it’s
praised by God, it’s a wise situation.
This is the only way Jacob can work with this kind of a business
environment; slip him a few bucks under the table, grease his palm. This is the way the business is done. So Jacob is shrewd this way. Now don’t take this as going out here and
getting arrested and say Charlie Clough said I could bribe. I’m just saying that at this point in history
Jacob is praised by God for doing this.
This is just simple wisdom. He is
the model of a man who got his stuff together.
Now in Genesis 32:24, the end of Jacob’s business career comments; we
said that this is the positive side of Jacob; he’s a man who plans for
contingencies, he knows when to offer a few presents if that’s necessary along
down the line. And he goes on.
Now at the end he
learns a very severe lesson, because God knows that though Jacob has this drive
within him he also knows that Jacob is a present-centered man and so now the
Lord Jesus Christ does the most amazing thing.
The person we’re about to meet here is the angel of the Lord; it is
Jesus Christ in His preincarnate form. “And Jacob was left alone; and there wrestled
a man with him until the breaking of the day.
[25] And when he saw that he prevailed not against him, he touched the
hollow of his thigh; and the hollow of Jacob’s thigh was out of joint, as he
wrestled with him. [26] And he said, Let
me go; for the day breaks. And he said,
I will not let you go, unless you bless me.
[27] And he said unto him, What is thy name? And he said, Jacob. [28] And he said, Thy
name shall be called no more Jacob, but Israel; for as a prince has thou has
power with God and with men, and you have prevailed. [29] And Jacob asked him, and said, Tell me,
I pray thee, thy name. And he said,
Wherefore is it that thou dost ask after my name? And he blessed him there. [30] And Jacob called the name of the place Peniel;” Pen is
the Hebrew word face, el is God, the
face of God, “[for I have seen God face to face], and my life is
preserved.”
Now what is this
strange episode of Jacob wrestling with Jesus Christ and winding up as a result
of this wrestling as a cripple? Jacob’s
comment, the wrestling on this, the comment is given in the book of Hosea. So turn to Hosea 12, the prophet remembered
this story and he uses it years later in teaching his people. It’s the story of the drive and soul of
Jacob, and God gradually sanctifying that drive. Jacob was an achiever, a super achiever, and
now the prophet Hosea puts it all together for us, all these strange things
that happened in Jacob’s life.
Hosea 12:3-6, “He
took his brother by the heel in the womb, and by his strength he had power with
God. [4] Yea, he had power over the
angel, and prevailed; he wept, and made supplication unto him; he found him in
Bethel, and there he spoke with us— [5] Even the LORD God of hosts; the LORD is
his memorial. [6] Therefore, turn thou
to thy God; keep mercy and judgment, and wait on thy God continually.” The prophet goes back to the Jewish character. Jacob grabbed the heel as he was being born;
at the point of physical birth he grabbed for his brother’s heel. And now the meaning comes out because as the
child was born he began to show his character.
He grabbed, he tussled, he is going to get his way in the world; he is a
super-doer, and that’s now… put them all together, the episode of his physical
birth, he grabbed his brother’s heel.
The episode in the kitchen that day with the pottage; he gets the
covenant by deceiving his brother. The
episode on his father’s death bed, as he and his mother plot to get the
covenant and get the birthright. And his
wife, he’s going to get those girls if he has to work 7 years to do it. You see the drive, the drive, the drive.
But now God wants to
teach Jacob a last lesson, lest he comes to the wrong conclusion. Jacob’s blessings must never be looked upon
as the result of natural drive. This is
dangerous because it would result then in a very impotent ethic or work, just
work hard and you’ll be blessed. God
doesn’t want that. And so in the very
last of his life Jesus Christ comes down to the earth, apparently in some preincarnate form, materialization, and he has a wrestling
match so He forces Jacob to have to face God face to face and in a very
concrete way God forces Jacob to deal with God.
And here is how God takes Jacob’s character and doesn’t smash his
character; that’s part of Jacob, the drive.
God doesn’t obliterate him in a duh… zombie kind of a personality and
this becomes spirituality. That isn’t
the way God works. Jacob’s own natural
amoral character is to be a super achiever, and so therefore God’s works in him
beautifully so he doesn’t destroy that natural aspect of his personality but he
directs it and he directs it to himself; come on Jacob, get me, come after me,
come after ME, not after Laban, not after Esau, after
ME! And that’s the story of the
wrestling. He takes Jacob’s drive and
forces it upon himself, and thus Jacob is taught to channel his drive. And this is why, from now on the nation is
called Israel and not Jacob, though often the prophets refer to both of them.
Why is the Jewish
nation called Israel? The modern state
is called Israel. Few people know
why. The reason is that that word
“Israel” does not refer to the physical side of Jacob; it refers to the
spiritual character; it refers to the character of the drive as it is channeled
toward God, and that is the meaning of the word “Israel.” And so therefore every time we speak of the
nation Israel we’re actually, if we’re historically accurate, thinking about
the fact of the Jewish drive that is Theocentric… the
Theocentric drive of the Jew, that’s the meaning of
Israel. And that’s why Jacob doesn’t
lose his other name. You know, when
Abraham changed his name it drops, Abram, boom, he’s never known as Abraham
again. It’s just a clear cut transfer
from Abram to Abraham. But not with
Jacob; Jacob see-saws back and forth because the two sides are always there;
the natural, Jacob, the man with the drive, and sometimes he uses it right and
sometimes he uses it wrong, and then Israel when that drive is used right; a
sanctified personality.
That’s the positive
side of Jacob. In this he can be a good
model for men. Not every man has this
kind of super achieving drive; be careful.
Some men do, and because some men do doesn’t mean that they are less
spiritual; because a man has a drive in the business world doesn’t mean it’s
carnal. It’s the value system that
motivates him. Some men can maintain
their spirituality beautifully. They
enjoy driving in business, it gives them great pleasure. Other men it would be too much of a hassle to
bother with, they get so distracted with the [can’t understand word] and so
therefore that’s not their bag. But
there are men with this drive, and if you happen to be one of those men with
this kind of drive, don’t feel embarrassed because of it. Just remember, God did not root it out of
Jacob’s soul; He only changed it.
Now the other side of
Jacob; he was a driver, he was an achiever, but he also inherited a very bad
thing from his father; Genesis 29. Jacob
was a short-term man; like Isaac he looked only upon his immediate generation,
not upon the future. You remember back a
few weeks somebody sent in a feedback card about the old problem that every guy
has, every married man has, the problem of competition between your job and
your wife. Not one Christian man doesn’t
have this problem. It’s always a
problem, it’s like grace and truth, how do you mix them, how do you keep it
together. And we said at that time, we
said in a very preliminary way, that the job was to accumulate wealth in this
generation and the wife and the family is to carry that into the next generation,
so the two go together. The wife is the
means and the vehicle for transmitting that and making it historically
significant. The job itself isn’t going
to transmit itself. That’s why the book
of Proverbs and why the book of Ecclesiastes, woe be the man who accumulates
riches and turns them over to a foolish son.
So the wife and the job compliment the historical importance of the
man.
Now in Genesis 29
Jacob omits this; Jacob is the man who gets the wealth all right, he’s got the
job down great, but his home life is a basket case. It starts off on a very bad way, he gets his
eyes on Rachel, which is all right, a good girl, he even kisses her in verse
11, but the problem is in kissing Rachel, the problem is he winds up at the
altar with the wrong girl, faked out by his uncle. God’s sense of humor, by the way, Jacob had
kind of a chiseler type quality so God says, Hey Jacob, you want to be really
chiseled, I’ve got a guy who will out chisel you and unfortunately the way the
wedding service was the girls had such a heavy drape you couldn’t see what was
underneath until after you took your oath and it was too late then, and that’s
what happened, the poor guy got stuck down at the altar.
Well, the description
of these two girls is interesting. In
Genesis 29:17 there’s an interesting character description of them both but
it’s looked at, the character of the two girls is looked at through the male’s
eye, because the Holy Spirit, as he writes the text, is looking at these women,
not from the throne down but He’s looking at them the way a man would look at
them. And so it says, “Leah was
tender-eyed; Rachel was beautiful and well favored.” Now that’s interesting, you can add your
fertile imagination as to what he’s talking about but let’s go to the text and
see what it really is talking about. With
“Leah” the Hebrew word is “eyes,” and the word can be translated as “timid” or
it’s sometimes used of children, undeveloped.
And the picture is… it’s very hard, I’ve chased it all up and down the
gamut and can’t really pinpoint the exact nuance of the Hebrew word here but I
think it has something to do with the fact of her hesitant character. It’s not just talking about her physically,
it’s talking about the fact that he looks at her eyes and they’re indecisive. There’s not a fire of conviction in them; and
so she has an indecisive personality.
It’s not talking,
necessarily, about her physical beauty; she probably wasn’t a pinup girl for
sure but that’s not the point of the text here.
And the reason I suspect that this is the case is because the son,
Reuben, later on you’ll see this in Genesis 49:4, is an unstable son. And it may be because his mother was
unstable. But anyway, she’s passive and
she’s unstable, and she’s the kind of girl that can be easily hurt; probably
wore her feelings on her sleeve all the time.
And this is a set up for trouble, because along comes Rachel, the age
old problem, a beautiful sister, less beautiful sister, and watch the
competition in the home. So Rachel, in
the Hebrew is like this, “beautiful of figure,” and that’s exactly the Hebrew
text, see, I told you it was looking at it from the male point of view, “and
beautiful of face.” Now what two things
does a guy look at? See how real the
Scriptures are; there’s no façade here, the Holy Spirit knows exactly what the
guy looks at, he looks at the cover on the book before he opens the pages of
course.
So here is Rachel and
she’s got all the assets and Leah is kind of sitting in the shadows. Now if that wasn’t bad enough, after he
marries Leah, huh, that kind of a… this is a first introduction that he and
Leah have; you’ll see that in Genesis 29:21, “And Jacob said unto Laban, Give me my wife, for my days are fulfilled, that I
may go in unto her. [22] And Laban gathered together all the men of the place, and made
a feast. [24] And Laban
gave unto his daughter Leah, Zilpah, his maid, for an
handmaid. [25] And it came to pass that,
in the morning, behold, it was Leah,” marvelous discovery on the wedding night,
wrong girl. And so this, of course, must
have created a great impression upon Leah, you can imagine with her being a
very passive type personality anyway, and the resentment that is developed in
her soul comes out later in the text, verse after verse after verse. This hurts her very deeply, in verse 30, “And
he went in also unto Rachel,” this is after he married her, “and he loved
Rachel more than Leah,” and so the antagonism of these two sisters persists
into the home of the second generation.
Now if you don’t think that’s a cause of trouble you can trace the text
and go through a study, watch how she names her children, watch the little
nuances of plotting and planning and so on.
But we’ll just look
at a few verses here at the end of Genesis 29 to give you an idea of where it’s
leading. Genesis 29:31, “When the LORD
saw that Leah was hated,” and here again it’s the use of the relative in the
Hebrew, the use of the absolute to indicate the relative, this doesn’t mean
that he just kicked her out of the house, it just means the preference is there
and as far as Leah was concerned she was hated, as far as Leah was concerned,
she’d been insulted; as far as Leah was concerned, she had no purpose left in
life except one, and that was she was going to bear a seed to this man and
persist in history; she was going to make her wave that was going to persist in
history. And “When God saw that Leah was
hated, He opened her womb, bur Rachel was barren. [32] And Leah conceived, and bore a son, and
she called his name Reuben; for she said, Surely the LORD has looked upon my
affliction; now therefore my husband will love me.” And so she still has that hope that she can
win her husband.
[33] “And she
conceived again, and bore a son; and said, Because the LORD has heard that I
was hated, He has given me this son also: and she called his name Simeon. [34] And she conceived again,” and so on. “Now this time” she say says in verse 34, my
husband will be joined unto me because I have borne him three sons: [therefore
was his name called Levi]. [35] And she conceived again,” and so on, but it
never happened; Jacob does not love Leah like he loves Rachel. And so this woman goes through, and you start
off the home situation and what is the home situation supposed to do? Breed the next generation.
Now do you see
Jacob’s flaw? Do you see Jacob’s
weakness? Do you see the Trojan horse
he’s got? Remember, he came out of a
broken home, didn’t he? Jacob grew up
with competition, with a father who could care less, who was preferential in
his treatment of his children, and Jacob grew up that way and he was kind of
used to it. So if his wives don’t get
along too well, that’s not too much of a problem; his sons don’t get along too
well, after all, you know when I was a kid we used to have fights all the time,
that doesn’t amount to much. In other
words, he totally lets his whole family life go to pot.
Watch the results;
Genesis 34:25. Here’s how his sons
behaved, and now you understand why they had to go to Egypt for training. The father was potent in business but
impotent in his family. In Genesis 34:25
one of Jacob’s daughters is raped, and the girl’s two brothers find this
out. “…And they took each man his sword,
and came upon the city boldly, and slew all the males. [26] And they slew Hamor
and Shechem, his son, with the edge of the sword, and
took Dinah out of Shechem’ house, and went out. [27] The sons of Jacob came upon the slain, and
spoiled the city, because they had defiled their sister. [28] They took their sheep, and their oxen,
and their asses, and that which was in the city, and that which was in the
field. [29] And all their wealth, and
all their little ones, and their wives took they captive, and spoiled even all
that was in the house. [30] And Jacob
said to Simeon and Levi, Ye have troubled me to make me stink among the
inhabitants of the land,” and so they stir up trouble. And so one of the
patterns of behavior in Jacob’s son is the pattern of physical violence, the
pattern we saw when studied the men before the flood. The Canaanite civilization, with Lamech, the men who were out of it with physical violence.
Genesis 37:20,
another incident showing the character of Jacob’s sons. Remember all these boys come out of a home
where two women are at odds all the time.
It’s no wonder they grow up this way.
Genesis 37:20, the famous story of Joseph, and the older boys hate the
younger. “Come now therefore, and let us
slay him, and throw him into the pit,” and then we’ll lie, “we will say, Some
evil beast has devoured him, …[21] And Reuben heard it, and he delivered him
out of their hands; and said, Don’t kill him, [22] … Shed no blood,” he tries
to do something, but the rest of them still manage to put Joseph in the
pit. And so now we have the second
pattern of behavior among Jacob’s sons; not only the pattern of physical
violence but the pattern of fratricide, brother against brother, jealousy,
envying, a disruption of the unity of the family.
And now finally,
Genesis 38:15, the third pattern we see in Jacob’s sons. Judah goes along and he sees Tamar and he
says she’s a whore, “because she had covered her face. [16] And he turned unto her by the way, and
said, Come, I pray thee, let me come in unto thee (for he knew not that she was
his daughter-in-law). And she said, What
will you give me, that you may come in unto me?
[17] And he said, I will send thee a kid from the flock. And she said, Give me a pledge…” And he gave
her the pledge; this pledge is carried around his neck; in the ancient world
this is what a man used to sign a check with in the clay, you roll this thing
out and it left your imprint, it’s like giving your MasterCard or something as
a pledge card. [19] “And she arose, and
went away,” and she finally… he finally finds out who she is but in the course
of the conversation the key verse is verse 21 because when Judah sends the guy
back to find out the girl to give her the check and get back his MasterCard, he
asks for the girl in a different word.
You see in the King James, in verse 21 it says, “Where is the harlot
that sat by the way,” but it’s a different word. The word there is a sacred prostitute and the
interesting thing is that by saying that he thought she was a Canaanite
prostitute.
Now what’s the
significance of this? What had Abraham
asked the servants to do when Abraham wanted a wife for Isaac? He said get out of here, I don’t want any of
these girls messing with my son; get him a girl up in the place where girls
have culture and character, but don’t mess with these girls. And the same with Isaac, he sends Jacob
north, because Esau has married into them and there’s no end of grief in the
home. And so what do we have here? We have Judah, Jacob’s son, caring less who
he has sex with or if he wants to marry or not marry, or go into a Canaanites
prostitute.
And so the third
pattern emerges among Jacob’s sons, sexual promiscuity. And we might add to that, that’s religious
involvement; it’s not just sexual promiscuity.
The use of religious prostitute indicates… it’s kind of an ecumenical
thing; it’s the complete neglect… now look what’s happened. On the one hand Jacob’s got wealth and power
that he could give his sons to become a great nation… a great nation, but they
can’t become a nation because daddy didn’t do his other job, and that is train
his sons. If God gave Jacob’s wealth to
Jacob’s sons his sons would dissipate the wealth in wars against themselves;
they don’t have unity, there is no respect for the authority of the Word of
God; there is a complete chaos in the home, Jacob has failed to dominate and
rule his home.
Jacob, then, has a
plus and he has a minus; a tremendous guy, limited vision. And the result is that to become the dominion
man that he must become and for his sons to become, four hundred years of
sorrow and suffering in Egypt, until God brings forth the character He wants,
and then when God gives them God’s inheritance, the sons will hold onto it.