2 Samuel Lesson 51

Political Chaos – 2 Samuel 3 & 4

 

Turn to 2 Samuel 2; we’re on the first part of David’s recovery after the death of Saul.  From chapter 2-11 deal with God’s blessing upon the Davidic dynasty, and chapters 2-4 deal with how David secured control over twelve tribes.  This all may seem to be very dull history until you realize that there are principles that apply to your Christian life and not only do they apply but if you understand this history it will add to the great exhortation for you to trust in the promises of God more than you are because if we see in this history true principles, obviously they worked once because this is a record of how they worked, and if they worked once in history and God is immutable, then they can work again in history.  So these stories are very important from the standpoint of God’s Word.

 

Let’s look at a principle that comes out over and over. God has a certain essence, a certain character; it can be described with various adjectives and nouns and one of these words we use to describe it is sovereignty, that God decrees whatsoever shall come to pass.  Nothing occurs in history apart from God’s decree.  God is a totally sovereign God. However, the Bible also says that God in decreeing does not invent a set of automatons, does not program history like an IBM machine.  We don’t know how He does this, but in some way God sovereignly decrees whatsoever shall come to pass in history, and yet whatsoever comes to pass in history is a result of responsible choice.  We don’t know how that works, but we just know that the Bible gives us picture after picture after picture of this principle.


Let’s give some applications of this.  We have, for example, God’s sovereign decree to bring the elect to salvation.  But He doesn’t force you, you believe, apparently just the course of events in history, you don’t feel some pressure.  And so even though God has decreed it, it doesn’t mean it’s a deterministic, mechanistic way.  Another example is that God has decreed that Israel will survive, regardless of the Hitlers, the Arabs or anyone else that tries to erase Israel from the face of the map; they aren’t going to succeed, and yet you don’t seem to see any big wall of fire come down from heaven and stop them; nevertheless, it always works out in the course of history, no matter how chaotic it is, no matter how disorganized, no matter how unfavorable the balance of power seems to be, Israel comes up smelling like a rose every time.  Why?  Because of God’s decree, that’s why.

 

In Samuel we have seen God’s sovereign decree to bring David to the throne through a series of all sorts of acts.  We’ve seen David’s anointing in the house of Jesse; we almost missed it there because remember where David was when Samuel came to the house and wanted to anoint him; he was out with the sheep, almost got overlooked, almost but not quite.  God decreed David would be king and David was anointed.  Then we have the many military battles that David engaged in in 1 Samuel; he could have been the victim of an arrow like Saul was, he could have, an arrow theoretically might have struck him, a sword, a javelin might have struck him in the chaos of battle but decreed David would rule and so no sword did strike him, and no arrow or javelin did.  We find how Saul attempted seven times to assassinate David; seven times he tried to kill David; seven times he put all of his might to kill David, through accidents, miscalculations, and all sorts of (quote) “chance” (end quote) phenomena David was saved.  Why?  God decreed David would get to the throne.

We find David’s errors, probably the most dangerous thing of all, David himself sins, puts himself in a position where he himself can either be annihilated or can ruin the typology of his office by slaughtering members of Saul’s house. And it looks like just at the last moment David is going to finally fail, just at the last moment history changes, there’s an (quote) “accident,” there’s some­thing else that happens, always David is preserved from destroying the typology of his office. Why?  God has decreed David will reign on the throne.

 

Now in chapters 3-4 we come to a series of accidents and violence in the course of David’s ascension to this throne, things that look on the surface to be like tremendous political upheavals, look on the surface from the human standpoint that the situation is totally out of hand, you have one plotter trying to assassinate somebody else with another big political plot, you have assassination teams, you have people trying to conduct negotiations, you have a very, very confused political picture.  But in back of it all God has sovereignly decreed David will get to the throne.  So in chapters 3-4 are just another lesson in this balance between God’s sovereign decree to get David to the throne and man’s responsible choices, accidents, quote “chance” end quote, and all the other things that seem to compete against God’s sovereign decreed, seem to overwhelm it, except in the last analysis the decree stands there.  

 

Let’s look at 3:1, “now there was a long war between the house of Saul and the house of David; but David grew stronger and stronger, and the house of Saul grew weaker and weaker.”  Now this follows chapter 2 where we had a man be the name of Abner.  Abner conducted a tournament at the pool of Gibeon, and his  idea was to have friendly competition between the north and the south.  And it degenerated into a murderous brawl in which all competitors at the tournament were slaughtered.  This began a war and the war began (quote) “by accident (end quote).   Abner couldn’t control it, David couldn’t control it, Joab couldn’t control it, it was just an “accident” that caused it, but an accident operating under God’s sovereign decree. 

 

And this accident should again remind you that there can be accidents in your Christian life but these accidents always have two very, very nice features, that go for you every time, no matter how big your problem is, no matter how massive it is, how helpless it is, there are always two things that you have working for you in every one of these problems, accidents, catastrophes that may come into your life.  One of them is that it’s never going to cancel out God’s decree for you; God has decreed you to be conformed to the image of Jesus Christ.  Now if He has decreed you as a believer to be conformed to the image of Jesus Christ, you will be in spite of all the accidents, the pressures, the adversities, the problems that look too big for God’s grace.  No problem is ever too big for God’s grace.  Proof: this history. 

 

The second thing you’ve always got going for you in the middle of every pressure or every trial, not only is it not too big for you, but oftentimes in the Christian life you go along and you hit one setback, and you start going down the drain, and then somehow you recover, go on, get down, go on and so forth, and you look back and say these are often distracting, they don’t seem to be related, they seem to be just a chance, just an isolated event here and an isolated event here and there’s no  rhyme nor reason to them; yet if you have been paying attention carefully in 1 & 2 Samuel, have these really been isolated examples?  No, remember all the times David got out of fellowship and it was always one point wasn’t it; David was not patient to seek God’s will and he had to learn the lesson and learn it and learn it.  So what looked like chaos was very carefully ordered.  God had sovereignly controlled everything, worked it out very carefully and they were not disjointed, they were part of one continuous plan.  So no matter how big that problem may be in your life, no matter how awesome it may be, no matter how awful it may be, you can rest assured that it’s not disconnected, it’s not a distraction, it’s just one more thing that’s working together for good, in one continuous unbroken patter of working in your life.

 

Now this war which began in verse 1 began five and a half years after Saul died.  Saul died in the last chapter of 1 Samuel and for five and a half years you have the Philistines dominate the northern territories.  And for five and a half years you have Abner trying to secure the northern territories to bring them under David’s throne.  Then for two years you have Abner strike on the brilliant idea of setting up a confederate state under Ish-bosheth, one of the sons of Saul. So for two years you have this war go on because the war starts when Abner begins this political gimmick of attaining control under Saul’s son.  So the war begins five and a half years after Saul’s death.  It occurs because Abner is in rebellion against God’s plan for the nation.

 

Now in verses 2-5 you have an official record that apparently is part of the document and is put in by the narrator here, to bring us up to date on David.  You read it and you wonder what has this got to do with the battles.  It has a lot to do with it; the whole point of this passage in Samuel is to show David is gaining power.  Yeah you say, but what does verses 2-5 have to do with David gaining power.  A lot!  Because in the Ancient Near East the king’s power is expressed through his harem, believe it or not.  The kings under the Ancient Near East, his claim to his throne, this operates about three or four times tonight, his harem, and the word “harem” was a word which originally meant off limits, and it started because he had all his girlfriends parked there and it was off limits to everybody except the king. So the king had a harem and the harem was an expression of his right to the throne.  Now we’re not sure exactly of all the connection but I’ll show you before we’re finished that it very definitely, the harem is connected with the right to rule.  So this also heads off at the pass some character that thinks David was a polygamist, therefore I can be one.  You don’t sit on the throne, sorry, so you’re disqualified, so any applying David’s polygamy to your life is out, so let’s not have illegitimate application.  These are only for kings and only under the Old Testament dispensations. 

 

All verses 2-5 do is relate the firstborn sons for all his wives, six wives and six sons; he had more than that but those are the wives that are listed at this point, to indicate that David is accumulating a harem and therefore the royal seed to the throne.  [2, “And unto David were born sons in Hebron: and his first-born was Amnon, of Ahinoam, the Jezreelitess; [3] And his second, Chileab, of Abigail, the wife of Nabal, the Carmelite; and the third, Absalom, the son of Maacah, the daughter of Talmai, king of Geshur; [4] And the fourth, Adonijah, the son of Haggith; and the fifth, Shephatiah, the son of Abital; [5] And the sixth, Ithream, by Eglah, David’s wife.  These were born to David in Hebron.”] 

 

Verse 6, “And it came to pass while there was war between the house of Saul and the house of David, that Abner made himself strong for the house of Saul.”  Now this is a very interesting word, the Hebrew has many stems for its verbs.  One of the stems is called the hithpael stem.  Now the hithpael stem is not used too frequently but it is used here.  It is a reflexive use, in other words, Abner made himself strong by his own effort.  This use of the hithpael stem here is to draw emphasis to the human viewpoint, the gimmicks that Abner was using.  This is sheer human viewpoint politics where autonomous man seeks to solve his problems in some way divorced from the grace of God; so the hithpael draws attention to the works, nature, this is not by grace like David, this is by works, just like the rest of the family.  And of course, it’s no wonder because look at the word, Ab-ner, what does that mean?  Do you know what “Ab” means? You should because of Abraham, what does “Ab” mean, it means father, “ner” means the lamp, and Abner’s father was Ner, Ner happened to be a brother of Kish, who was the father of Saul.  Now you see the connection?  Abner has more than a passing interest in maintaining the throne in the north, it’s kind of his bloodline.  So Abner is related to Saul and Abner is now trying to take over from Saul’s son, Ish-baal or Ish-bosheth.  So there’s [not familiar with word, sounds like: para petition] between Abner and Ish-bosheth but it’s always in the house of Saul. 

 

You’ll lose the point of the story if you don’t catch it right here and that is every character you’re going to see here is in the house of Saul; all the shenanigans that go on have to do with the house of Saul.  That’s very, very important to the story because God is going to dispense the house of Saul and replace David and He’s going to do it without David having to lift a finger. David is not going to have to “hithpael” it, he isn’t going to have to do it by his own works.  The other thing that is interesting about this verb, that Abner “made himself” strong, is that it is a participle, and this means that it was a process that went on and on and on and on.  In other words, Abner continually set gimmicks; Abner continually strove to make himself powerful in this new dynasty; he set up a puppet king and he pulled the strings. 

 

Verse 7, now we get into the harem.  And Saul had a concubine, whose name was Rizpah, the daughter of Aiah: and Ish-bosheth said to Abner, Why have you gone in to my father’s concubine?”  Now what’s happening here and what is the problem?  To analyze the passage we have to know a little bit of history.  First of all, “have gone in” I hope you know that means have sex with, so this is sexual intercourse with one of Saul’s concubines.  Now why is this considered a big affront, because obviously it’s not the wife of Ish-bosheth, why should he bother with Saul’s concubine, and why should he be bothered if Abner wants to go out and shack up, why should he be bothered with those things.  Well, we’re going to see that this is a claim to a throne. 

 

Turn to 2 Samuel 16:20-23, you’ll see where this strange practice comes out again, strange by our standards in the west so we have to understand the Biblical world.  A lot more went on here than just a night with a concubine.  Now this is later on in the life of David, and Absalom is trying to take over his father’s throne; got the picture.  Absalom is David’s son, this is at a later time in history, Absalom wants to take over his father’s throne, so watch how he does it.  “Then said Absalom to Ahithophel,” Ahithophel was his advisor, “Give counsel among what we shall do. [21] And Ahithophel said unto Absalom, Go in unto thy father’s concubines,” in other words, have sex with the concubines of David, “whom he hath left to keep the house, and all Israel shall hear that thou art abhorred of thy father; then shall the hands of all that are with thee be strong.” Why would that act of going in and having sexual intercourse with the concubines of David have anything to do with the throne.  Read on.  Verse 22, “So they spread Absalom a tent upon the top of the house;” and he did it every night, see, made sure everybody saw what was going on, couldn’t miss it, “and Absalom went in unto his father’s concubines in the sight of all Israel,” do you get it that this is rather a public affair that’s going on. Now what has this got to do with it.  Read on. [23] And the counsel of Ahithophel, which he counseled in those days, was as if a man had inquired at the oracle of God; so was all the counsel of Ahithophel, both with David and with Absalom.”  Now here you have an oracle and it’s an authoritative word to Absalom how to claim the throne; how do you claim the throne?  By going in and claiming the concubines as yours.  Now again it sounds strange by our standards but you have to understand this was the custom if you are to understand what we’re trying to study in the passage tonight. 

 

We see this even further, turn to 1 Kings 2:13, it occurs again. This is a boy that wants to go into the concubines of Solomon, and he apparently has a girlfriend in there or something and he wants her.  So he tries to go through the queen, who at this point is Bathsheba.  And verse 14, “He said, moreover, I have somewhat to say unto thee.  And she said, Say on. [15] And he said, You know that the kingdom was mine, and that all Israel set their faces on me, that I should reign,” now that shows you right away this boy has some royal motives, it’s not just he’s out for a party, he’s out for politics.  “Howbeit, the kingdom is turned about, and is become my brother’s; for it was his from the LORD. [16] And now I ask one petition of thee, deny me not. And she said unto him, Say on. [17] And he said, Speak, I pray thee, unto Solomon the king …that he give me Abishag, the Shunammite, in marriage. [18] And Bathsheba said, Well, I will speak for thee unto the king. [19] Bathsheba, therefore, went unto King Solomon, to speak unto him for Adonijah.  And the king rose up to meet her, and bowed himself unto her, and sat down on his throne, and caused a seat to be set for the king’s mother; and she sat on his right hand.”  At this point Bathsheba is the Queen mother actually, she’s Solomon’s mother.  By the way, there’s another illustration of sitting on the right hand, and how the son sits on the father’s right hand, notice what she does at the right hand of the king; the very next thing, she makes petition.  That’s where that expression the Son sits at the Father’s right hand got started. [20] “Then she said, I desire one small petition of thee; I pray thee, refuse not.  And the king said unto her, Ask on, my mother; for I will not refuse thee.  [21] And she said, Let Abishag, the Shunammite, be given to Adonijah, thy brother, in marriage.”

 

Watch Solomon’s answer.  [22] “And King Solomon answered and said unto his mother, And why do you ask Abishag, the Shunammite, for Adonijah?  Ask for him the kingdom also,” why is that linked in there, for that was tantamount to asking for the kingdom, why don’t you just come right out and say what you want, that boy wants my kingdom.  So asking for the concubine was, as a matter of fact, claiming the throne.  Now we don’t understand the custom, all we have to do is under­stand that it occurred; that was the custom at the time.  Verse 23, “Then King Solomon swore by the LORD, saying, God do so to me, and more also, if Adonijah has not spoken this word against his own life. [24] Now, therefore, as the LORD lives, who has established me, and set me on the throne of David, my father, and who has made me an house, as he promised, Adonijah shall be put to death this day.”  Now see, asking for a woman’s hand in marriage isn’t the question; what was behind this was asking a royal privilege, or a claim.  That’s why he got capital punishment. 

 

Now 2 Samuel 3; this is the significance of Ish-bosheth’s attack on Abner.  However in this case, because Abner is a member of the family, Abner is cousin to Saul and he apparently honestly wasn’t actually claiming the throne because as far as he was concerned he was going to get it anyway; to him he just wanted a girlfriend for the night is the way the text reads here, so he just wanted one and that’s how he got it, so to him it wasn’t a claim on the throne at all.  Verse 7b, “Ish-bosheth said, Why have you gone in unto my father’s concubine?” In other words, he said you are trying to claim my throne Abner, why have you done this.  And so Abner is very furious, and as we have seen him before in the text, as a military man, he’s quite blunt with his language. 

Verse 8, “Then Abner was very angry for the words of Ish-bosheth, and said, Am I a dog’s head, which is against Judah,” now we would say it differently, I am a you know what, and that’s the way we’d say it but in that day, I’m the head of a dog, which meant that I am a … you finish it, people get upset when I use that language so figure it out for yourself.  “…do show kindness this day,” in other words, Abner is saying look, I am showing you kindness, chesed, I am loyal to our house, see it’s his family too, as well as Ish-bosheth’s, I show kindness to this house, I am loyal to this house, I am not claiming the throne. So at this point he’s denying, he is actually denying… by the way, when he says, I’m a dog’s head in Judah, literally, that shows you the segregational attitude that the north had against the south here. At this point the people in the north were very proud and they can’t stand the people of Judah. 

 

And this is one of the political problems that David has to overcome; is that the people in Judah are not well-liked by the people in the north, for some reason.  But it leaks through every once in a while in these comments and here’s one of them.  And I “show loyal love this day unto the house of Saul, thy father, to his brethren, and to his friends, and have not delivered thee into the hand of David,” see, for five and half years I had this place up here, safe in the Philistines, and now for two years I’ve been helping you; “that you charge me today with a fault concerning this woman?” 

 

Verse 9, “So do God to Abner, and more also, except, as the LORD has sworn to David, even so I do to him. [10] To transfer the kingdom from the house of Saul, and to set up the throne of David over Israel and over Judah, from Dan even to Beer-sheba. [11] And he could not answer Abner a word, because he feared him.”  So what is Abner saying in verses 9-10?   This is a very interesting verse and it shows you something about the spiritual climate of the time.  When he says in verse 9, “May God curse me,” literally, “may God curse me, except as the LORD has sworn to David, even so I will do to him.”  What he is saying is you’d better watch your marbles, kid, because I have the power to deliver this whole kingdom to David.  So if you play tough with me, you’re just going to lose the whole kingdom, period.  You accuse me of claiming the kingdom by going in to your concubines, listen, the kingdom isn’t even yours in the first place, I’m the one that gave you the kingdom and I’m the one that can take it away.  See the human viewpoint political attitude. 

 

And he says, interestingly, “as the LORD swore to David,” now that is very, very interesting.  Do you know what that tells us?  That tells us that the Davidic Covenant was well-known, or at least the antecedents to it, God’s promise to David was well known by the house of Saul and even Abner knew it.  Now you say, wait a minute, how can Abner know that is’ God’s will to give David the throne and yet Abner’s the one that’s keeping David off the throne by setting up this northern confederacy.  What’s the story?  It’s simple, just like today, people know what Genesis says, don’t they?  Most people know something about Genesis, but how many people believe it?  Most people know the New Testament teaches Jesus Christ is going to literally and physically return, but how many people believe it.  So here, this is just the same, in Abner’s mouth, yeah, he knows it says God said he’s going to have the throne, ha, kind of thing.  Just like people today say oh yeah, you know, Christ is coming, sure, tell me another story.  Same kind of attitude. The Word of God is known but not believed.  Abner is a compound carnality believer just like Saul, or an unbeliever, he may have been either one, but he shows his lack of spirituality here by knowing the Word of God and not bowing down to it.  And so he says I’ll give David the whole kingdom.

Verse 11 is the result, Ish-bosheth is a puppet king under Abner. 

 

Now in verse 12 we have the defection; here’s the diplomatic goings on that occurred at this point.  “And Abner sent messengers to David on his behalf, saying, Whose is the land?”  Now in a few verses here you have a very intriguing confrontation. Abner represents human viewpoint; David represents divine viewpoint and both these men are butting heads at the bargaining table.  Abner starts off his message, “whose is the land?”  Well whose is the land?  It’s the Lord’s land, isn’t it.  Of course it is, but who does Abner mean?  Him.  Abner says now David, he starts off from his strong point in the bargaining sessions, now the land is mine and maybe we can make a deal, maybe I can give you my land.  So this is his human viewpoint analysis of the situation, even though, notice, by verse 9 you know that he knows that it’s God’s will that David rule it.  In spite of that Abner says it’s my land.  Now he says, make a covenant with me, [Saying also, Make thy league with me] and behold, my hand shall be with thee, to bring about all Israel unto you.” 

 

There’s the human viewpoint proposal.  He says I’m in a position of power, I can’t stand this brat, Ish-bosheth, now I’d like to be the commander in chief under David, we’d have a lot more action, David is a lot more Biblical in how he runs his military than this jerk over here that I have to serve under, so actually I’ll just bring the whole northern kingdom down and we’ll unite and have one big happy family; I’ll do it, it’s my kingdom, my land, and by my hand we will do this.  Now David finds out immediately, he sees the name of the game, and he makes a very clever reply that goes back to the same principle of the harem again.  Verse 13, “And he said, Well; I will make a league with you; but one thing I require of thee, that is, thou shalt not see my face, except you first bring Michal, Saul’s daughter, when you come to see my face.” 

 

Now why does David make that request; again, he’s saying oh, the land is yours Abner, oh really, who is the husband of Saul’s daughter?  That’s what the diplomatic answer to Abner is. Abner says the land is mine; David say oh no it isn’t, because my wife is Saul’s daughter, now you just bring that girl right down to me when you come.  See this is David’s very high finesse in the diplomacy of counterattacking the human viewpoint of Abner.  He says you don’t own the land, who are you kidding?  You’ve got my wife up there, Michal. Remember Michal, and notice she’s called Saul’s daughter, she was the girl that acted like her father, very proud, very self-righteous and she inherited, like many daughters do, the behavior patterns of her father.  And she acted just like her father. 

 

Verse 14, “And David sent messengers to Ish-bosheth, Saul’s son, saying, Deliver me my wife, Michal,” and David is still laughing at the way that he got this girl, in the ancient world a dowry was paid and Saul thought he was going to kill David and he asked him to go out, kill a hundred Philistines, cut off their foreskins and bring them back.  And you have to relax, there is a sense of humor in 1 Samuel, God wrote it and this is the way it is, so just chuckle at it, it’s God’s sense of humor.  David thinks this is pretty funny to, so he says, “Deliver unto me my wife, Michal, whom I espoused for an hundred foreskins of the Philistines.”  Bring me old hundred foreskin Michal down.  This is just his way of playing along with the Lord’s sense of humor, he’s relaxed about it, he just went along with it and it was also a very good divine viewpoint quip against Abner.

 

Verse 15, “And Ish-bosheth sent and took her from her husband, even from Paltiel, the son of Laish.”  She’s been remarried now.  [16] “And her husband went with her, weeping behind her, to Bahurim. Then said Abner unto him, Go, return. And he returned.”  Abner told him to get lost and he did.  And finally David wound up with Michal.  Now this has more than just humor in it, the acquisition of Michal, again, is a divine claim upon the throne.  It’s David’s way of asserting…we don’t understand why all this went on, all we can say is that all through history at this point, that the claim to the throne is somehow linked to the women that are around that throne.  There’s more to this than just a big joke.

 

Verse 17, now the deal has been consummated and the next step would have been a very peaceful acquisition of all the tribes, Abner has completed his portion of the deal, Abner has secured the royal lineage, Michal, now Michal is added on with the six other women, it’s getting kind of crowded but she’s the seventh, and she comes back and now everything is seemingly worked out.  Now here is where you’re going to see sovereignty, an accident, occur again, because over it all, overarching the whole story is God, who is sovereign; but within the story you have an upset because we encounter the second great human viewpoint gimmick.  The first one was Abner’s plot to deliver all the nation into David’s hand; it almost succeed; Abner’s plot almost succeeded.  Now we have the second plot of the story.

 

The second plot is by Joab, the commander in chief of David’s armies, and the second plot destroys the first pot.  [17] And Abner had communication with the elders of Israel, saying, You were seeking for David in times past to be king over you; [18] Now, then, do it; for the LORD has spoken of David,” now isn’t that a pious sweet thing, look what he’s just admitted in verse 17, “you were seeking for David in times past,” it is a participle and it means you were continually seeking for David.  Now when were the people in the north seeking for David?  During the five and a half years when Abner was trying to secure the land, and during the two years of Ish-bosheth’s reign, all during that time, this verse tells us, that there were believers who were regenerated and being sanctified by the Holy Spirit in the north that recognized God’s will, knew God’s will and wanted to submit to it.  That asked, let David be our king, you know that’s God’s will for us.  So verse 17 is a frank admission that there were hundreds and thousands of believers in the north that wanted to swing in under David’s rulership and they recognized that David was of the Lord and they wanted to obey the Word.  So who was it that prevented the elders from swinging. 

 

Now here’s the irony of the whole thing; Abner is saying I am going to bring the north down to the south, but the north wanted to come down to the south in the first place.  Who was the one who was blocking the north from coming down to the south by his own little plan?  Abner; so now Abner in effect, didn’t ask in verse 18, “Do it, because the LORD has spoken of David,” well if the Lord had spoken why didn’t he do it seven and a half years ago?  Because he didn’t care what the Lord had said, this is just another one of his little gimmicks, use the Word when it’s convenient to use it and forget it when it’s not convenient. So Abner uses the Word, he didn’t care whether the Lord had spoken it or not, this was just using the Word of his human viewpoint purposes.  “…the LORD has spoken of David, saying, By the hand of My servant David I will save My people, Israel, out of the hand of the Philistines, and out of the hand of all their enemies.”  See how much he knows; don’t say that Abner doesn’t know the Word. Abner knows lots about the Word of God, he has lots of doctrine that he knows, and has rejected. 

 

Verse 19, “And Abner also spoke in the hearing of Benjamin,” now why is verse 19 put in there?  Because Benjamin was his home tribe, you’ve got to secure Benjamin.  “…in the hearing of Benjamin, and Abner went also to speak in the hearing of David in Hebron all that seemed good to Israel, and all that seemed good to the whole house of Benjamin. [20] So Abner came to David to Hebron, and twenty men with him.  And David made Abner, and them men who were with him, a feast.”  Now verse 20 is another illustration of David’s excellent diplomacy.  Remember David’s age here is 29; David is only 29 years old when all this was going on so you can imagine the wisdom that he has acquired as a young man, not only by age 29 has he become a military hero, but he has also become the king of the south, he has also had a massive amount of training in Scripture under the prophets and now he is a master diplomat.  And he is going to go along with this first plot with Abner.  Now he’s not excited about it because you know from verse 13 he clearly said that he doesn’t recognize it’s Abner’s gift to give in the first place, but if Abner wants to bring all the tribes down, David is not going to fight him, so David goes along with it.  And he made him a feast.  Now the feast was a diplomatic party.  And David knew the etiquette of the day, and he staged a party.  Don’t tell anybody, but they weren’t drinking Ginger Ale.  This was a party that was conducted, in the times in which it was written, would be drinks and beverages that were served in that day.

 

Verse 21, “And Abner said unto David, I will arise and go, and will gather all Israel unto my lord, the king,” now it looks like right here plot number one pays off, the deal has been made, “that they may make a league with thee, and that you may reign over all that thine heart desires.  And David sent Abner away; and he went in peace.”

 

Now the bad news, [22] “And behold, the servants of David and Joab came from pursuing a troop, and brought in a great spoil with them: but Abner was not with David in Hebron; for he had sent him away, and he was gone in peace. [23] When Joab and all the army [host] that was with him were come, they told Joab, saying, Abner, the son of Ner, came to the king, and he has sent him away, and he is gone in peace.”  Now Joab blows his lid.  At this point, as David’s commander, he walks in and he chews out David.  And here’s an example where the military is out of line.  Now David knew what he was doing and he was an excellent diplomat.  And here’s a case where Joab, as a man in the military, was still fighting the battle from the field perspective, and he tried to dictate his field perspective to the overall strategic perspective of David. 

 

Verse 24, “Then Joab came to the king, and said, What have you done?”  Now he’s going to tell David, he’s going to give David advice.  “Behold, Abner came unto you; why is it that you have sent him away, and he is gone?”  Now why do you suppose Joab is infuriated?  Is it just to Joab a matter of national security or is it a little bit more personal than that.  Obviously it’s a little bit more personal; remember what happened at the tournament of Gibeon?  Remember who it was that was killed, accidentally, chasing after Abner, Abner turned around with the blunt end of a sphere and it went through him and impaled him there, killed him; that was Joab’s brother.  So Joab is a little bit more personally involved than just a matter of national security. 

 

Verse 25, “You know Abner, the son of Ner, that he came to deceive you, and to know your going out and your coming in, and to know all that you do.”  In other words, it’s just a spy attempt, that’s all.  Verse 25, “And when Joab was come out from David, he sent messengers after Abner, who brought him again from the well of Sirah; but David knew it not. [27] And when Abner was returned to Hebron, Joab took him aside in the gate to speak with him quietly, and smote him there under the fifth rib,” this is an idiom for in the stomach, “so that he died for the blood of Asahel, his brother.”  Now that blows the whole first plot.  See, the plot of Abner was to deliver the kingdom, so plot number one fails right here.  Everything was just ready to bring this human viewpoint gimmick, and now we’ve got another “accident.”  I want you to get an idea of the chaos here.  The political arena is always going to be filled with chaos and the thing that is so foolish is that you have people in the conservative camp who go around and insist that the communist control every move of history, or that the Jewish bankers control every move of history.  Let me tell you something; there are plots and there will always be plots, always have been plots.  If the communists really controlled history, like these plots all say, then aren’t you saying the communist party is sovereign?  You’re saying the communist party, a group of men, control history.  Nonsense!  This passage should smash the tendency to have plot theories of history. 

 

Look at this, it’s one accident after another, nobody is in control.  That’s the whole point of this passage; David’s not in control, he’s going to admit it; David can’t control it; Saul can’t control it, he’s dead; Jonathan can’t, he’s dead; Abner can’t, you just saw how Abner controlled the situation, and now we’re going to find Joab can’t control the situation.  Nobody can control it, that’s the point of the story, there are no human agents in control of history, period!  There are plots in history, yes, but no one group of men can ever control history; it denies the Word of God. 

 

What’s the next thing that happens.  Verse 28, now hears about the second item; see, this is plot number two, Joab has his little plot going and he’s going to get his will accomplished, and he gums up the whole thing; that was a real smart move, now the unity of the kingdom is again threatened.  “And afterward, when David heard it, he said, I and my kingdom are guiltless before the LORD forever from the blood of Abner, the son of Ner.”  Now David’s passion, so far in Samuel was to get on the throne without murdering anyone in Saul’s family; we’ve seen that. Remember the time he caught Saul in the cave, and he wasn’t sleeping; he caught Saul in the cave and he could have killed him; he didn’t.  He caught him again and he could have killed him but he didn’t.  Why?  David has an obsession that when he walks up and he takes the crown and he sits on that throne that his hands are clean of the blood of the previous dynasty.  But this is politics by grace and if he attains the throne it’s going to be by God’s grace, not by human gimmicks.  And the human gimmick in that era of ancient history was assassinate the dynasty, get rid of it, kill them off and take over.  That’s not what David wanted.  He waited and he waited and he waited upon the Lord to take care of the situation.

 

Now this point, in verse 28, small though it sounds, grieved David for the rest of his life.  To his dying day David grieved over the death of Abner.  Let me show you this; 1 Kings 2:5 here is David when he’s turning over the power to his son, Solomon.  And then he talks to Solomon, he gives him some instructions.  What’s on his mind when he talks to Solomon, his son, in his last days.  Remember what “Joab, the son of Zeruiah, did to me, and what he did to the two captains of the host of Israel, to Abner, and to Amasa, the son of Jether, whom he slew, and shed the blood of war in peace, and put the blood of war upon his girdle [belt] that was on his about his loins, and in his shoes that were on his feet.”  Again in verse 32, “And the LORD shall return his blood upon his own heard, who fell upon two men more righteous and better than he, and slew them with the sword,” this is Solomon speaking, “my father, David, not knowing of it: Abner, the son of Ner.”  So it was something that plagued the house, David’s house, for a long, long time.

 

It should be too hard for you to conceive of David’s position.  David has not control over the people under him, and here’s a beautiful illustration of it.  Joab is under the authority of David but David does not exercise total control over Joab.  Now watch this because there’s going to be a tremendous lesson about the Messiah in this in a moment. David is the king, he’s the human king, but no human king, no matter how powerful he is, can control all of his lieutenants.  There will always be guys under him that will undermine him and David now experiences this.

 

He goes on and in verse 29 he lets all Israel know this; first he curses the family, “Let it rest on the head of Joab, and on all his father’s house; and let there not fail from the house of Joab, one who has an issue, or who is a leper, or who leans on a staff, or one who falls on the sword, or who lacks bread,” this is sickness and deformities in the family. [30] “So Joab and Abishai, his brother, slew Abner, because he had slain their brother, Asahel, at Gibeon in the battle. [31] And David said to Joab, and to all the people who were with him, Rend [tear] your clothes, and gird you with sackcloth, and mourn before Abner.”  He proclaims, in verse 31, a national repentance over this assassination.  “And King David himself followed the bier. [32] And they buried Abner in Hebron; and the king lifted up his voice, and wept at the grave of Abner; and all the people wept. [33] And the king lamented over Abner, and said, Died Abner as a fool dies? [34] Thy hands were not bound, nor thy feet put into fetters; as a man falls before wicked men, so fell you.” Now that is a song actually, it’s part of a song, we don’t have the whole thing, it’s one of David’s laments.  We’ve seen one lament in the first chapter of this, here’s David’s musical ability coming out at a critical point in his career.  “And all the people wept again over him.

 

Verse 35, “And when all the people came to cause David to eat food while it was yet day, David swore, saying, So do God to me, and more also, if I taste bread, or anything else till the sun be down.”  David said I’m not going to eat meat until the sun goes down.  [36] “And all the people took notice of it, and it pleased them; as whatsoever the king did pleased all the people.”  Now verse 36 is the reason that David made the great lament; David is not being insincere, but he must demonstrate that the blood of Joab does not hang on his administration, and he’s got to conduct a public ceremony to make and dramatize this clearly, that I am not responsible for Joab; this happened but my administration is not going to be held guilty before God because of Joab.  So he goes through all these careful pains to purge from his administration all signs, all connections, all legal guilt for this murder. 

 

And that’s why in verse 37 the result was successful.  “For all the people and all Israel understood that day that it was not of the king to slay Abner, the son of Ner.” You see, he had to convince the public that this was a sin of Joab, not part of his administration policy.  And then he mourns him as a great prince.  [38] “And the king said unto his servants, Know ye not that there is a prince and a great man fallen this day in Israel.” 

 

Now in verse 39 he makes a very important point that is going to point to the Lord Jesus Christ.  Here, after this terrific blow, think of it now, David has been reigning for only seven and a half years, and he hasn’t even reigned over all Israel yet, he’s only reigned over Judah, one tribe, that’s all, only seven and a half years, and right now, because of this political mess with Joab, he confesses, “this day I am weak, though I am the anointed king; and these men, the sons of Zeruiah,” that was his sister, Joab was related to David because Joab was the son of David’s sister, Zeruiah, “the sons of Zeruiah, are too hard for me.”  The word “hard” means vengeful, the Hebrew word for callousness, vengefulness, vindictive, they’re too vindictive for me.  “The LORD shall reward the doer of evil according to His wickedness.” 

Now the confession in verse 39 is an important and very powerful piece of Biblical political philosophy.  What that verse is teaching is that the greatest human king that ever reigned in history confessed that he could not control his own administration.  Now what does that point to?  What quality is needed for a man to totally control his administration?  He’s got to be sovereign, and that’s just the point; the perfect king, who is going to be the Messiah, is going to be sovereign and He will control everything in His administration.  This points ahead, it shows the frailty of even David, blessed as he was by grace, could not handle a perfect administration; he couldn’t keep corruption down in his own administration and he had to confess, I am weak, and these men that I have even under me are too strong, to hard, to callous, too vengeful for me; I can’t maintain it, I am not sovereign.  That’s why Messiah is going to be God and man together.

 

Chapter 4 is a very parallel passage to chapter 3, and it gets across much the same points.  [1] “When Saul’s son, heard that Abner was dead in Hebron, his hands were feeble,” he really fell apart, “and all the Israelites were troubled.”  This is the story of the assassination if Ish-bosheth, see, it was one mess after another, this was the third plot.  So verse 2 introduces tow men, “And Saul’s son, had two men who were captains of bands: the name of one was Baanah, and the name of the other, Rechab, the sons of Rimmon, a Beerothite, of the children of Benjamin (for Beeroth also was reckoned to Benjamin.”  Now what is a Beerothite?  A Beerothite is a foreigner, just like the Amalekite boy that killed Saul; the Bible is careful to point it out, it was not a Jew that did this. 

It’s just a notice.  [3] “And the Beerothites fled to Gittaim, and were sojourners there until this day).” 

 

Verse 4, “And Jonathan, Saul’s son, had a son who was lame in his feet.  He was five years old when the tidings came of Saul and Jonathan out of Jezreel, and his nurse took him up, and fled; and it came to pass, as she made haste to flee, that he fell, and became lame.  And his name was Mephibosheth.”  Now that is Jonathan’s son, and why is that stuck in the middle of all this.  To show a principle.  Let’s look at it; here’s the house of Saul, let’s take a roll call. Saul is dead; Jonathan is dead, his other sons, dead.  Jonathan’s son, Saul’s grandson, Mephibosheth, an invalid.  Abner, dead.  Not a very impressive role for the survivability of Saul’s house.  There’s one man left, Saul’s son, Ish-bosheth and now he is going to die.  Saul’s house has been eliminated, apart from David raising a finger.  Let’s look at it.

 

Verse 5, “And the sons of Rimmon, the Beerothite, Rechab and Baanah, went, and came about the heat of the day to the house of Ish-bosheth, who lay on a bed at noon.”  This shows his character. [6] And they came there into the midst of the house, as though they would have fetched wheat; and they smote him under the fifth rib,” they really did a good job with the rib, “and Rechab and Baanah, his brother, escaped.”  So you have the third assassination.  Do you see the mess, the political upheaval, the chaos, everything.  Now don’t tell me somebody is in control here; nobody is in control of this thing.  First you have the first plot, Abner; that ends in a disaster.  You have the second plot, Joab, that ends in a disaster because Joab gets cursed.  [7] “For when they came into the house, he lay on his bed in his bedchamber, and they smote him, and slew him, and beheaded him, and took his head, and went away through the plain [Arabah] all night.”

 

Now you have the third plot and that ends in disaster because now Ish-bosheth dies and they’re going to commit the same blooper that the Amalekite did. Verse 8, “And they brought the head of Ish-bosheth unto David to Hebron, and said to the king, Behold, the head of Ish-bosheth, the son of Saul, thine enemy, who sought thy life; and the LORD has avenged my lord, the king, this day of Saul, and of his seed.”  Hey David, how about pinning on the medals, we solved another one of your problems, David, you ought to be glad.  Verse 9, “And David answered Rechab and Baanah, his brother, the sons of Rimmon, the Beerothite, and said unto them, As the LORD liveth, who has redeemed my soul out of all adversity,” now look at that, isn’t that fantastic, that’s David’s motto for his life, he said now look, I don’t need you guys around, I don’t build my administration on creeps and political amateurs with their human viewpoint gimmicks.  The Lord has decided what is going to happen here and he’s delivered me out of these problems.  “…the LORD lives, who has redeemed my soul out of all adversity.” 

 

Now he goes back and this gives you a good indication of David’s mental attitude.  Verse 10, “When one called me, saying, Behold, Saul is dead, thinking to have brought good tidings,” that’s the gospel, same word, “I took hold of him and slew him in Ziklag, who thought that I would have given him a reward for his tidings. [11] How much more, when wicked men have slain a righteous person in his own house upon his bed?  Shall I not, therefore, now require his blood of your hand, and take you away from the earth.”  So he kills him, and he buries Ish-bosheth with Abner.  [Verse 12, “And David commanded his young men, and they slew them, and cut off their hands and their feet, and hanged them up over the pool in Hebron. But they took the head of Ish-bosheth, and buried it in the sepulcher of Abner, in Hebron.”]

 

The principle you get out of this is God’s sovereignty.  And in all this upheaval and tumult you have a perfect illustration of Romans 8:28; that’s all that’s happening here, this is just another Romans 8:28 passage.  I suggest to you if you feel under the pile, if you feel that everything is breaking apart around you in chaos, think of David in this situation.  When you read the newspaper and see the mess, think of David; David confessed I too am weak, I, the anointed of Yahweh, I can’t control it either.  There is only one ruler to whom be glory and honor and power, the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit.  With our heads bowed….